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Author:  Squeelpiggy [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 5:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Picking up at the swimming pool
Hi guys,

I've done a bunch of swimming in my lifetime and always noticed that there are a lot of hot girls at the pool. It never really occured to me to pick them up there because it just seems a "defensive" situation since you can see pretty much the entire bodie of a girl and vice versa. And plus I'm always too focused on my training

Sometimes there are these cute single girls in the pool, swimming in the same lane as me or next to me. Do you guys have any suggestions about openers in this situation or conversation topics? Should I get her to a place to talk (and how) immediately or let a bond be established when I see her again? I guess the latter is more subtle.

Or any suggestions how to tease in the water or push/pull? Thanks a bunch in advance.
Author:  seph89 [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 5:45 pm ]
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Hi guys,

I've done a bunch of swimming in my lifetime and always noticed that there are a lot of hot girls at the pool. It never really occured to me to pick them up there because it just seems a "defensive" situation since you can see pretty much the entire bodie of a girl and vice versa. And plus I'm always too focused on my training

Sometimes there are these cute single girls in the pool, swimming in the same lane as me or next to me. Do you guys have any suggestions about openers in this situation or conversation topics? Should I get her to a place to talk (and how) immediately or let a bond be established when I see her again? I guess the latter is more subtle.

Or any suggestions how to tease in the water or push/pull? Thanks a bunch in advance.
Can't say I've had any experience in this area ("water game"), but with day-gaming a good rule of thumb is to open with something situational and go from there.
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:07 pm ]
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great place u got something in common and also most chicks dont wear makeup if they're swimming so u can see how they actually look, body, face and all.
Author:  Squeelpiggy [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 10:50 pm ]
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great place u got something in common and also most chicks dont wear makeup if they're swimming so u can see how they actually look, body, face and all.
Yes but I tend to think they aren't as open to strangers contacting them in this situation because everythings visible and they're probably more shy. And it's hard to give them a sincere compliment or you'd have to say I love the way your boobs look in that bikini or something :p
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 12:08 am ]
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great place u got something in common and also most chicks dont wear makeup if they're swimming so u can see how they actually look, body, face and all.
Yes but I tend to think they aren't as open to strangers contacting them in this situation because everythings visible and they're probably more shy. And it's hard to give them a sincere compliment or you'd have to say I love the way your boobs look in that bikini or something :p
Well you're wrong.

This has more to do with your own discomfort towards sexuality than anything else. Most women aren't as freaked out about sexualizing things as you think they are. In fact, they are to the contrary...they WANT things to be sexualized, just not a creepy weirdo needy kind of way. If you're chill about things (not make such a big deal out of human sexuality - we all crave it after all - women are no exception).
Author:  Entourages [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 12:17 am ]
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Cognizant is correct, I remember when I was last at a pool I saw two gorgeous girls, walked upto them and just started tanning next to them and started convo, I wasn't there to get the girls I was there to start a convo, I find out that they have cute friends and now we talk occasionally, the reason I didnt make a move was because of age gap sadly :(
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 12:19 am ]
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Cognizant is correct, I remember when I was last at a pool I saw two gorgeous girls, walked upto them and just started tanning next to them and started convo, I wasn't there to get the girls I was there to start a convo, I find out that they have cute friends and now we talk occasionally, the reason I didnt make a move was because of age gap sadly :(
There's your frame, young grasshopper. Now spring forth!
Author:  Squeelpiggy [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 2:39 pm ]
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great place u got something in common and also most chicks dont wear makeup if they're swimming so u can see how they actually look, body, face and all.
Yes but I tend to think they aren't as open to strangers contacting them in this situation because everythings visible and they're probably more shy. And it's hard to give them a sincere compliment or you'd have to say I love the way your boobs look in that bikini or something :p
Well you're wrong.

This has more to do with your own discomfort towards sexuality than anything else. Most women aren't as freaked out about sexualizing things as you think they are. In fact, they are to the contrary...they WANT things to be sexualized, just not a creepy weirdo needy kind of way. If you're chill about things (not make such a big deal out of human sexuality - we all crave it after all - women are no exception).
Can't agree with this. I'm actually very chill about this but I just notice most girls aren't as open to talking or feel maybe a bit nervous. I'm feeling good about my body so I come off as rather confident, but obviously girls are more critical towards their body in this modern society than men. Not every girl is the same but most are though.

I'm not having trouble with being playful now, that's actually quite easy I noticed in the pool, thing is how to get to comfort, it just isn't easy in this situation where people are all around. So I have to get her to some place but telling her for instance to accompany me for a drink afterwards seems so obvious. Any other suggestions maybe? Thanks for the replies.
Author:  Sonicvega [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 3:02 pm ]
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I think what you just need is a good opener that is situation related. And a couple of threading conversations to keep it going . In a pool you have built in time constraints as well you can use. As far as physical proximity that's one Ill have to analyzable myself as to how I would do that . I have a pool in my apt complex ill have to let ya know .But either way it sounds like you should just jump right in sort to say.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 6:59 pm ]
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great place u got something in common and also most chicks dont wear makeup if they're swimming so u can see how they actually look, body, face and all.
Yes but I tend to think they aren't as open to strangers contacting them in this situation because everythings visible and they're probably more shy. And it's hard to give them a sincere compliment or you'd have to say I love the way your boobs look in that bikini or something :p
Well you're wrong.

This has more to do with your own discomfort towards sexuality than anything else. Most women aren't as freaked out about sexualizing things as you think they are. In fact, they are to the contrary...they WANT things to be sexualized, just not a creepy weirdo needy kind of way. If you're chill about things (not make such a big deal out of human sexuality - we all crave it after all - women are no exception).
Exactly.

Just to add to that... if woman didn't feel comfortable with guys being sexual with them at the pool then they wouldn't wear 2 piece bikinis that show off their body. There is a reason the bikini covers very little :P
Author:  Squeelpiggy [ Tue Apr 03, 2012 11:13 pm ]
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Yes but I tend to think they aren't as open to strangers contacting them in this situation because everythings visible and they're probably more shy. And it's hard to give them a sincere compliment or you'd have to say I love the way your boobs look in that bikini or something :p
Well you're wrong.

This has more to do with your own discomfort towards sexuality than anything else. Most women aren't as freaked out about sexualizing things as you think they are. In fact, they are to the contrary...they WANT things to be sexualized, just not a creepy weirdo needy kind of way. If you're chill about things (not make such a big deal out of human sexuality - we all crave it after all - women are no exception).
Exactly.

Just to add to that... if woman didn't feel comfortable with guys being sexual with them at the pool then they wouldn't wear 2 piece bikinis that show off their body. There is a reason the bikini covers very little :P
Hm, I actually know some women who prefer to wear bikinis because bathing suits are so dorky. But maybe you're right and that's just their excuse to show off :p

Anyway there's a HB8 I've been talking to on and off whenever I see her for a minute. It's actually quite hard to make conversations because me or her are just about to leave or were just taking a break from swimming a few lanes. I think I demonstrated some value by being a fairly good swimmer these days and I joked around about her trying to beat me and that just wouldn't happen. I've also noticed her watching from the side a few times when I was swimming. This could be an IOI, still I feel like I'm not getting into A3 because of the complex situation..

Today it turned out also she had a boyfriend, he came along with her but from the look of it it isn't a good relationship, seems like they've been in a slump for a while and I can fairly say I'm a better catch than him, he seems like your regular nice guy but damn he got a good girl there. So getting even more complex now, but we'll see how this goes :)
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