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So I've been practicing my game on the receptionist at my club and I started off playfully teasing, c&f, and a little bit of negging for the first few times i would see her. All was good but today i think i overdid it with the negs and she went from being cool with me to really hating me...
Aha. Same situation here with my sarges last year. So I went back to study what I've been doing wrong with the Mystery Method.Here are some points.
1. Mystery hangs out with HB10s with high confidence levels who usually hangout in night clubs and bars. Just Google some Mystery pictures. Those kinds of chicks will have different behavior from say, your HB10 receptionist who only goes to nightclubs and bars once a month or once a year (if this is the case).
2. I found that doing the established neg routines are effective when the girl negs you FIRST in a rude manner. In this case, you'll have to come back with a stronger neg to show your dominance. Dominant men attract women. If a woman is trying to dominate you, then she is testing you if you are more dominant than her. If you say the established neg routines first on a woman who is NOT trying to dominate you, then the you are being domineering. Domineering attitudes kill attraction while dominant traits fan the flames of sexual attraction. There's a big difference.
3. Hate and love are almost the same. If your receptionist is anywhere from 18 to 28 years old, then letting her feel hate is letting her experience the emotional roller coaster ride of romance. Have you tried reading a girlie romance novel where the badboy gets the girl? The girl hates the badboy first. Due to this hate, she keeps thinking about him. Then the badboy does something that softens her heart and the girl says to herself, he must be a badboy on the outside but a lovable man on the inside. I'd read several short novels from my exes with the same exact story line. Girls keep on buying and reading these novels even though the plot is the same.
4. You'll need to create your own negs that are a lot milder than the established negs for shy girls, HB6s, 7s, 8s, or even 9s. However, sometimes an HB6 feels likes she's an HB10 and will neg you FIRST with established girlie neg routines. If this is the case, you'll have to neg her with the strongest neg that you know.
One girl, HB6.5, negged me with a, "Do you have a short dick?" but she said it in a charming manner. So I came back with a polite, but strong neg. We ended up fucking every other weekend.
Mild negs are actually teases or bantering which work REALLY well with most girls but I find the established PUA neg routines get girls mad when I use it on them first.
Revise and adapt your neg routines to the context of your PUA operations.
How do you spread a soft cushion on your neg crash-and-burn landing? Get a girlie short romance novel where the badboy wins the girl. Learn and learn it well.
