Freeze out & friendly hi/bye until you notice that she's trying to make contact. I'm pretty sure that you are on her mind.

She's in complete control, you're in her frame.

Step back, don't contact her much but dont complete freeze her out.

Go meet other girls, go about your business when she realizes you aren't playing into her frame/script that she's the prize she'll be curious to know what's monopolizing your time (e.g. another girl, perhaps?).

She will contact you guaranteed, you just gotta be strong and refrain from engaging her as much.


The places she sees you are social I presume such as the gym. Start engaging other people there, particularly girls (cute ones, not fat ugly ones) she'll get jealous guaranteed and in process who knows you may make some new friends to fuck!

You fucked it up pretty bad in the beginning, but possibly not beyond salvaging. I'll try and be brief as it sounds like you have some grasp over basic game concepts.

In your whole exchange with her, besides the beginning, you were way too engaged. It is true that men are supposed to aggressively pursue the women they want, but in a very COUNTER-INTUITIVE WAY. Take this quote by Robert Greene to heart: "The most perfect seduction is the one where the seduced thinks they are doing the seducing." After you CREATE that spark of attraction and rapport, your job is to then back off a bit, draw up some competitive anxiety (make sure she knows that other women want you), and they to lay back as she chases you.

Near the end the way you handled it was wrong, it was only "text book right." You executed the right way; but you have to remember one thing no matter what type of game you're running. Frame control is everything. Mystery said it perfectly, "with the right frame, you can say or do ANYTHING." And the contra is true - under the WRONG frame, almost ANYTHING can come off the wrong way.

So in your case, your frame control was weak and your entire dynamic with her functions under the subtle assumption that SHE IS THE PRIZE. That's a losing mentality, YOU need to be the challenge. Other women need to want you, you need to be busy, you need to have other passions, you need to show her that you're a high value male who can't be tied down easily. So when you told her "when are you going to make it up to me?" it immediatley got filtered down through that SAME FRAME; which means it comes off as MORE SUPPLICATION. You're being MORE DESPERATE for her attention. When DD was referring to that line, he meant it from a cocky/funny standpoint; one where YOU ARE ALREADY DOMINANT, so it comes off as flirtatious. From THAT perspective, "when are you going to make it up to me?" is just another cocky/funny retort (the already embedded assumption that she WILL make it up to you, and has to for that matter because she has offended you).

And lastly, your reaction to this whole thing needs to be indifference. Not because it'll get her back, but because you're treading on Oneitis waters. I can already tell from your post that you're thinking about her too much; go fuck ten other girls just as hot and your predilection for this girl will fade away.

And don't overdo the ignorance. A freeze-out will ONLY work with PREVIOUSLY ESTABLISHED ATTRACTION. If a girl isn't interested in you enough, a freeze out will only push her further away. And if a girl is VERY interested in you, and you freeze her out too often; she will become resentful. The key is to understand that game is an organic concept, and can be MUCH more dynamic than most people think.

At this point, act Disinterested. Not like you're trying hard to forget it, but rather that you just also lost interest in her. Hit on other girls, preferably ones hotter than her and let her see you close them. And finally, neg her/ DHV heavily.

And don't ever say "I think I'm going to cave in." As you think, you shall become.