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Author:  raybow [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  having no social life due to an ex girlfriend
well basically i was starting out with PUA and i started to get the hang of the basics, a few months past and using a few things i had learnt from another member i decided to give it ago with this girl. so we chatted via facebook started texting.. then i fell for her thought she was amazing.

but now its over and i basically have no social life, i fell for her that hard i spent most my time with her ( like a fool ) i still saw my mates but it was hard as she didnt like them. so now i have a hand full of friends that are my best freinds.

the point im trying to get at is i used to be fairly popular with some girl, like i was speaking to atleast 20 girls which lead me to meet there friends. but then it all just stopped due to been in a relationship. but then i didnt mind as i really cared about this girl, and i loved her. i was with this girl for 6 months, sounds stupid but she really meant alot to me and still does.

but anyway, i just dont know where to start, i seem to have lost my touch alot. no girl seems to want to talk any more ( possibly due to the fact i fucked them off ) but i just dont know where to start again, im not good looking at all and im fairly fat, but trying my hardest to loose weight again.

any tips you guys or girls could give would be much appreciated, really need to get my social life back on track

thanks alot :)
Author:  raybow [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 8:04 pm ]
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hey cheers mate :)

haha i know i felt like a vagina was growing where my penis should be...

thanks for the information ill have to have a look into it see if its right for me :) im not that fat but want to loose weight and get alot fitter
Author:  0uch [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 8:27 pm ]
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You have get in contact with your friends again and start talking, or go out and start making new ones.

And, for future, screen girls, if a girl does not get along with your friends, why would you want her to be your girlfriend? Bros before hoes isn't just a saying. Girls are generally very submissive, and they love guys who keep them in check. Be a leader.
Author:  raybow [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 8:36 pm ]
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i talk to the main group of freinds i grew up with all the time, go to pub and nights out and stuff like that.

i didnt not see them, i just found it hard to balance both, if i made plans witht hem id stick to them and if i made plans with her id stick to them, just they choose all the times i was with her to try and make plans haha
Author:  knight_justun [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 8:49 pm ]
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go and have fun with your friends. think positive and soon you will get which ever girl you like.
Author:  Costa-T [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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So you wana loose weight as quickly as possible? well i have this solution that i tried myself 7 years ago when i figured out that i need to lose weight? It's DANGEROUS and will have it's effects on your for a while after you stop it but it's the quickest way possible and i did it before so i know. Here is what to do, gain some strong determination that you actually wana lose weight. Then completely STOP eating and stick to liquids ONLY, i know you'll say you gona die and bla bla bla, i am a medical student and i can tell you that we will die if we stopped drinkin but we can live without eating. Anyhow, your body will need vitamins so buy the vitamins from your locan pharmacy A-D and drink a lot of orange juice and milk. And whilst doing that, you need to go for a walk every day for at least an hour and a half. I did that for 3 weeks and i dropped from 95kg to 74kg so that tells you all of it.

The problem with this is that when you start eating again, your stomach is no longer used to it so you'll end up throwing up most of the times, well only for the first few times so i suggest you start easy like with soups and fruits and stuff like that.

About your ex, trust me i know because i just came out of a similar situation and you'll probably find my topic on here but the guys helped me understand that the energy im wasting thinking about it, i could use it to refocus on my game to improve it and that's how it's helping me getting over the whole thing and i can tell you brother i am just doing fine as if i have already moved on.
Author:  Costa-T [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 10:33 pm ]
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Then completely STOP eating and stick to liquids ONLY, i know you'll say you gona die and bla bla bla, i am a medical student and i can tell you that we will die if we stopped drinkin but we can live without eating. Anyhow, your body will need vitamins so buy the vitamins from your locan pharmacy A-D and drink a lot of orange juice and milk
Dude i respect your opinion becase thats what i should do but are u fuckin insane?

You just described to this man the perfect way to fuck up his kidneys, get a gastric ulcer and increase the chance for prostate cancer at a later age!

If you really are a Med student your ethics classes should prevent you from giving this kind of bullshit advice to people.
I appreciate your reply buddy and i know what im talking about, i told him it was dangerous but it won't fuck up his kindeys or make him get cancer or anything like that because i didn't ask him to drink alcohol, i asked him to drink milk, orange juice and a lot of vitamins. Now let me tell you that i have came across patients that are naturaly incapable of eating so they live on vitamins... So where is the harm there?
Author:  Costa-T [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 11:04 pm ]
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Dude i respect your opinion becase thats what i should do but are u fuckin insane?

You just described to this man the perfect way to fuck up his kidneys, get a gastric ulcer and increase the chance for prostate cancer at a later age!

If you really are a Med student your ethics classes should prevent you from giving this kind of bullshit advice to people.
I appreciate your reply buddy and i know what im talking about, i told him it was dangerous but it won't fuck up his kindeys or make him get cancer or anything like that because i didn't ask him to drink alcohol, i asked him to drink milk, orange juice and a lot of vitamins. Now let me tell you that i have came across patients that are naturaly incapable of eating so they live on vitamins... So where is the harm there?
The harm lies in a few things as i see it.

The first being the imbalance of salts in the blood that this diet will cause because of large consumption of fluids. Second, the likelyhood of an allergic reaction based on the excessive vitamin intake, these two things together have the potential to mess with the ph level of gastric acids thus causing ulcers.

Also large quantities of milk over a longer period of time do increase the chance of developing prostate cancer by 25-30% according to the research done by University of Honolulu (i think)

But i guess since you disclaimed that it was dangerous from the start i shouldnt have gone caveman on you in my previous post like i did so no offense there man!
It's fine buddy i understand where you're coming from but vitamins are just the same as when you eat, if you eat fish all day from morning to night then you'll get fucked right? that's why vitamins are just the same, so a couple of tablets a day, lets call it lunch and dinner :) And the same thing with the milk, we need to have a source to strengthen the bones especially in a situation like this so again you'll stick to a glass or two as we did when we were kids :)

I do appreciate your reply though pal, and i totally understand your concept but trust me i wouldn't give information to harm anyone :)
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: having no social life due to an ex girlfriend
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well basically i was starting out with PUA and i started to get the hang of the basics, a few months past and using a few things i had learnt from another member i decided to give it ago with this girl. so we chatted via facebook started texting.. then i fell for her thought she was amazing.

but now its over and i basically have no social life, i fell for her that hard i spent most my time with her ( like a fool ) i still saw my mates but it was hard as she didnt like them. so now i have a hand full of friends that are my best freinds.

the point im trying to get at is i used to be fairly popular with some girl, like i was speaking to atleast 20 girls which lead me to meet there friends. but then it all just stopped due to been in a relationship. but then i didnt mind as i really cared about this girl, and i loved her. i was with this girl for 6 months, sounds stupid but she really meant alot to me and still does.

but anyway, i just dont know where to start, i seem to have lost my touch alot. no girl seems to want to talk any more ( possibly due to the fact i fucked them off ) but i just dont know where to start again, im not good looking at all and im fairly fat, but trying my hardest to loose weight again.

any tips you guys or girls could give would be much appreciated, really need to get my social life back on track

thanks alot :)
I private messaged you dude :) Check it out
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