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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do I calm the nerves? I am demanding more attention now |
Dudes and girls notice me now. I have built up my confidence to a point where everyone takes a notice(I know because I scan the room and smile at everyone and they all catch it). But now I feel like I have a spotlight on me. It's like I am to perform. Should I just embrace it? I feel adrenaline most of the time now, it's nerve racking. I know maybe I might be over thinking it but it gets to me sometimes. I am not crazy by the way, I have caught a decent amount of people looking and they turn their gaze away every time. |
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| Author: | Cognizant1 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
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maybe you've got a booger hanging from your nose |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:59 pm ] |
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Quote: maybe you've got a booger hanging from your nose
So simple but yet so effective! |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 7:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Adrenaline is good. |
Adrenaline is good. It's energy. It has the same goodness as a testosterone boost after a gym workout. Ten minutes after your workout and while still sweating, the girls you know are more prone to touch your biceps or chest, smile more at you, or hold your gaze more. When your adrenaline is high. Focus on something else; not the chicks. If you're focusing on the girls (or they notice you sweeping gazes at girls), they'll flee. Hold your gaze to one person only. This could be the bartender while you're ordering a drink. This could be the rock singer on stage. This could be the bouncer you want to ask something about, and so on. Girls will go near you to get your attention. When she does something to get your attention, that's the only time you hold her gaze. Indifference works. Your attention or gaze is a psychological reward for girls who have earned your attention. Your attention is a seduction tool. Make it scarce. It's a classic Mystery Method. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 7:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Adrenaline is good. |
Quote: Adrenaline is good. It's energy.
Girls are getting near me...but they don't come alone. It's 2 or more usually ever since my inner confidence soared. I am not used to all the attention but maybe focusing on just one person would make it go away. I was trying to do that the whole time when I was talking to a my girl friends. But it was hard because I knew I had other gazes on me because I was in a food court. My peripheral caught them...
It has the same goodness as a testosterone boost after a gym workout. Ten minutes after your workout and while still sweating, the girls you know are more prone to touch your biceps or chest, smile more at you, or hold your gaze more. When your adrenaline is high. Focus on something else; not the chicks. If you're focusing on the girls (or they notice you sweeping gazes at girls), they'll flee. Hold your gaze to one person only. This could be the bartender while you're ordering a drink. This could be the rock singer on stage. This could be the bouncer you want to ask something about, and so on. Girls will go near you to get your attention. When she does something to get your attention, that's the only time you hold her gaze. Indifference works. Your attention or gaze is a psychological reward for girls who have earned your attention. Your attention is a seduction tool. Make it scarce. It's a classic Mystery Method. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 8:52 pm ] |
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Haha, I always use this place to vent out troubles. Never mind, I'll stop being a wuss and man up, lol. |
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