Hey guys, I'm a 20 year old student, I've been browsing some PUA forums and I've done a lot of reading on the subject. Just to give you a general idea, I've slept with 5 girls last year, kissed a few more but I haven't had a serious relationship yet.
If the story seems a bit too long, there is a summary at the bottom.
Yesterday, I was at a bar, and I noticed a cute girl staring at me. It was a nice party and I was pretty drunk. I don't know how I started conversation, but after a few minutes I was making her laugh a lot, and I continued to talk to her and dance with her for about an hour. After a while, I told her I was really glad I met her and that I'd like to have her phone number (rookie mistake, blame the booze, which also is a rookie mistake
). She said she wasn't too sure about giving me her phone number and said she wanted to think about for a night. I was going to see her the next day because we were staying at a house with a large group of people.I was quite surprised that she wouldn't give me her number because we were having fun and she also was quite drunk.
We continued to talk, laugh, and drink. Eventually the booze got the better of me, and I tried to compliment and charm her in ways that were quite DLV-ish until I finally decided that I would do more damage than good and went to bed.
The next day, I saw her and greeted her, and she smiled back and we talked for a few seconds. I told her with a big grin on my face that booze makes me a bit of a romantic, and she told me she noticed (duh) while smiling back. Some minutes later, as I took off I said goodbye and asked if she had already thought about her giving me my phone number. She laughed and said have a nice trip, leaving me empty handed.
The frustrating thing is that we were having so much fun the night before and I was actually quite surprised that she didn't give me her number..
I'm going to see her at least twice a week for the coming month, everytime in the same large group as we were in the house with. It's been a while since I've liked a girl this much, and I really hope I can take her out and kissclose and see what happens from there. Any tips?
Summary: I was drunk at a party, met a girl and danced, talked and laughed for an hour, asked her phone number but she wanted to decide if she would give it the next morning. Continued to talk to her and probably scared her off a little due to drunk DLV. She, however, was also drunk. The next day, I talked to her a little bit and when I asked about her phone# she laughed it off. I'll see her twice a week during classes and I want to go on a date with her. Any tips?