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Author:  convivalAFC [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:08 pm ]
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I discovered PUA about a year and a half ago and there have been many benefits and not so many. Let me get to the point, ever since i've been reading into this i havn't even got laid once, i complete everything and try everything i read but nothing happens. I look back on my life and see myself being better off before i discovered pua. I knew nothing about women so i didn't talk to them with a little voice in the back of my head exploding with books, pdf files and all sought to do with pua. I don't understand what i have to do to get laid, I've been positive for 6 months even when the people i hang around with are all annoying. I just don't know anymore
Author:  Phoenix_ [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:54 pm ]
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How much have you actually been going out in field? If you have been committed for a 1 1/2 you must have at least gotten close to getting laid once
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:42 am ]
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How much have you actually been going out in field?
There's the real issue. Think back to last week. Did you meet three new girls? Did you meet three new girls the week before that?

If you actually TRY for a year and a half, you're going to get laid, it's almost inevitable.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:53 am ]
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Either what the guy above me said, or you're in mental masturbation mode. 90% of all PUA advice is bullshit, I've been in your shoes before after a long time. Google "Debunking the seduction community" and read it. Also, get Minimal Game (the book). It's the most basic and will tell you how getting laid really is. No tricks, no mystery bullshit, no DHV, no alpha.
Author:  wingintyme [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:31 am ]
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You are probably over thinking it. I have watched guys try to recite shit they read in books and it hurts them a lot more than if they were being themselves. A lot of women can tell if you are scripted and to most of them it turns them off.
Author:  Cornishman [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:49 am ]
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Leave. Don't read anything.

Point out your SP and figure out an exercise or ACTION you can take to get over it.

Do not come back till you have dealt it.
Author:  Muzic [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:21 am ]
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I was on the same boat for a while. I thought i had tried and tried and I had actually given up. I thought I just didn't have it in me and started trying to cope with the fact that I might just be alone forever!!!!! Scary thought huh? anyway as much as I tried to get away, meeting females was inevitable. Either through friends or just out in public I would end up coming face to face with women. Even though I had given up something inside would say "just fukin try!!". So once in a while I would give it a shot and go down in flames or just feel like I looked stupid. Then one day at a strip club i met a wonderful gal who was just friendly as hell. I made friends with her (she was not the most attractive by the way) but she was nice and willing to just chill with me so i went to see her again. Then one day another one of the dancers (a fukin 10) saw us and as I found out later she wondered wtf made me so damn interesting. Then when i went to get a lapdance from her she started talking and I tried game (small shit that was in THE GAME) and it just freakin clicked. I spent no money and talked to her for 3 hours and she gave me her number begging me to call her back. That was after 2 years of trying. 2 years because i wasn't trying to meet 3 women a week. I was just trying once in a while. Now i know that if I had just stopped being a bitch and feeling sorry for myself, and tried alot more times it would have happened alot sooner. So you can fool all of us on this forum but you can't bullshit yourself. Dude...you could have been getting laid right now!!!!
Author:  0uch [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:02 am ]
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Open sets, without opening, your not getting anywhere. Even if you have bad game, but can keep conversation going, your gonna get laid. And to keep the conversation going, you have to learn how to listen.
Author:  Glamboozle [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:29 am ]
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Neil Strauss covers this in The Rules of the Game. The problem is how you're learning. First, do nothing but open until you master openers. Just open and eject. Then focus on building attraction. Then focus on qualification, etc. Master each step because that's how the brain works. It took me months to realize this and I'm going through this now. Just doing nonstop openers and approaches until it seems like old hat.
Author:  Entourages [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 6:53 am ]
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Damn, bro you saying you can not have sex once, cause having sex is easiest thing in to the world to do, having sex with someone you want is a challenge. There is definitely some bs here.

Get off your ass and stop reading shit. I read like what 5 books and by read I mean I only read mystery and the game (plus a bit of rules), everyhting else get to page 50-200 and I get bored, too many words. Seriously there is no point in reading a book what do you gain from it, someone else's success or methods??? Who gives a shit what someone else does to get laid, make up your own shit.

Why I think that the straus thing is legit, you get to make ur own method up because your crafting it as you go to some structure you should follow. Seriously, get your dick out of ur hand, and go outside and just meet people. There is no way you can not get laid. You are just not making any effort. There (And sorry to offend anyone_ are definitely some non-hb7-10's you can easily get with. It is just a fact. I know if I wanted to I can get with like 5 girls within seconds, do I choose to... no. Not the point!
Author:  seph89 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 7:22 am ]
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You're problem is that you are TRYING.

Don't try man, JUST DO.

Surround yourself with positive influences and dump all the toxic people in your life.

Go out and have fun. Be comfortable in your own skin. BE OKAY WITH YOURSELF.

Once you are confident, then you may let use the methods you've been studying but it all comes down to your inner game and how much importance you are tying to this. It's NOT a big deal brother.
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 9:02 am ]
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Either what the guy above me said, or you're in mental masturbation mode. 90% of all PUA advice is bullshit, I've been in your shoes before after a long time. Google "Debunking the seduction community" and read it. Also, get Minimal Game (the book). It's the most basic and will tell you how getting laid really is. No tricks, no mystery bullshit, no DHV, no alpha.
What he said, though I've got no idea about the books he spoke about.
Author:  convivalAFC [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:25 pm ]
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[quote="Chris2k10"]Either what the guy above me said, or you're in mental masturbation mode. 90% of all PUA advice is bullshit, I've been in your shoes before after a long time. Google "Debunking the seduction community" and read it. Also, get Minimal Game (the book). It's the most basic and will tell you how getting laid really is. No tricks, no mystery bullshit, no DHV, no alpha.[/quote]

Its funny, i was going to write an article on this topic but this guy has included everything i was thinking. The only thing i gained from PUA for shit tests and body language but i knew about that way before PUA. Why it took 1 half years to know that i don't know, this is a new chapter in my life. Lets hope it leads somewhere good
Author:  Entourages [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 2:44 pm ]
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I am so glad to hear you are still gonna try bro. Just start having fun and live life, enjoy life and then get girls at the same time.
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