PUA Forum :: I don't feel like a real man...depressing thoughts

Hey guys

For some reason, I just don't feel manly enough. Ever.
It's to the point where if I'm having sex, I imagine the girl being ravished by another guy. I hate this because I know I'm doing it because I feel like I can't please a girl myself - I don't have the mindset that she's having sex with me because I'm sexy.

This also means I can't really get off to blowjobs. I feel that the girl is doing it to be nice, rather than because she wants to suck me off, taste me and please me etc.

It's an embarrassing thing to worry about, which Is why I'm on this forum today.
Although I have a good job and small business at 20, a lot of friends, and am able to attract women quite easily - it just seems I'll never be completely happy about myself.

I feel as though a woman would only get turned on properly by physically very manly men. Like the typical tall muscly guy, with rugged features. This is the opposite of how I actually look.
I'm 5'7, athletic and have a young boyish look. It seems as though women are not evolutionary hardwired to be attracted to any of my physical features.

I can't really explain how I feel...but I'm not happy at all. I just don't know what to do to feel truly completely secure and masculine. It seems as if because of how I look, it's impossible.

No amount of women, financial success, or friendships seem to help. The only reason why I've been so active in terms of chasing women and making money is because I thought that would make me feel like a real man.

More over, I feel as though I WILL get cheated on for a taller more masculine guy. Not because the girl is a slut, but because ALL girls will naturally cheat to get the most masculine guy they can find. I feel that that is just how evolution has programmed women, and there is no point fighting it.

I need help, I have never felt so unsure about myself in my life and am on shaky ground. Anything you can tell me to help is greatly appreciated...im losing my mind

Author:	Century100 [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:05 pm ]
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Hey guys For some reason, I just don't feel manly enough. Ever. It's to the point where if I'm having sex, I imagine the girl being ravished by another guy. I hate this because I know I'm doing it because I feel like I can't please a girl myself - I don't have the mindset that she's having sex with me because I'm sexy. This also means I can't really get off to blowjobs. I feel that the girl is doing it to be nice, rather than because she wants to suck me off, taste me and please me etc. It's an embarrassing thing to worry about, which Is why I'm on this forum today. Although I have a good job and small business at 20, a lot of friends, and am able to attract women quite easily - it just seems I'll never be completely happy about myself. I feel as though a woman would only get turned on properly by physically very manly men. Like the typical tall muscly guy, with rugged features. This is the opposite of how I actually look. I'm 5'7, athletic and have a young boyish look. It seems as though women are not evolutionary hardwired to be attracted to any of my physical features. I can't really explain how I feel...but I'm not happy at all. I just don't know what to do to feel truly completely secure and masculine. It seems as if because of how I look, it's impossible. No amount of women, financial success, or friendships seem to help. The only reason why I've been so active in terms of chasing women and making money is because I thought that would make me feel like a real man. More over, I feel as though I WILL get cheated on for a taller more masculine guy. Not because the girl is a slut, but because ALL girls will naturally cheat to get the most masculine guy they can find. I feel that that is just how evolution has programmed women, and there is no point fighting it. I need help, I have never felt so unsure about myself in my life and am on shaky ground. Anything you can tell me to help is greatly appreciated...im losing my mind

Author:	silverito [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:16 pm ]
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from what you describe women like you more than at least 50% of all mankind. There are lots of man who did not even had sex being 20 years old, not to mention numbers of times like you did. So yeah most likely women like you. Interesting psychological issue you have, shows that humain brains sometimes works in interesting ways

Author:	Century100 [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 11:42 pm ]
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I doubt it would be over 50% of women. To me it's more just finding the right opportunity and taking it if you like it. I haven't slept with that many women, because I have a girlfriend. 5 in total

Author:	G00FY [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:08 am ]
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bro you should definitely check out some of tyler durdens stuff for sure. he talks about inner game and values and stuff and that shit really helped me. it will help you get over your limiting beliefs which will also make you more confident and improve your game massively! he also talks about how looks DO NOT MATTER. (keep in mind this guy is like 5ft8 or something. his stuff has hugely helped me so check it out! peace.x

Author:	abyys [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 12:39 am ]
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These videos might help : http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=pl ... zIhCh-tj8A especially the first

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Author:	Cognizant1 [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 4:50 am ]
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Quote: Hey guys For some reason, I just don't feel manly enough. Ever. It's to the point where if I'm having sex, I imagine the girl being ravished by another guy. I hate this because I know I'm doing it because I feel like I can't please a girl myself - I don't have the mindset that she's having sex with me because I'm sexy. This also means I can't really get off to blowjobs. I feel that the girl is doing it to be nice, rather than because she wants to suck me off, taste me and please me etc. It's an embarrassing thing to worry about, which Is why I'm on this forum today. Although I have a good job and small business at 20, a lot of friends, and am able to attract women quite easily - it just seems I'll never be completely happy about myself. I feel as though a woman would only get turned on properly by physically very manly men. Like the typical tall muscly guy, with rugged features. This is the opposite of how I actually look. I'm 5'7, athletic and have a young boyish look. It seems as though women are not evolutionary hardwired to be attracted to any of my physical features. I can't really explain how I feel...but I'm not happy at all. I just don't know what to do to feel truly completely secure and masculine. It seems as if because of how I look, it's impossible. No amount of women, financial success, or friendships seem to help. The only reason why I've been so active in terms of chasing women and making money is because I thought that would make me feel like a real man. More over, I feel as though I WILL get cheated on for a taller more masculine guy. Not because the girl is a slut, but because ALL girls will naturally cheat to get the most masculine guy they can find. I feel that that is just how evolution has programmed women, and there is no point fighting it. I need help, I have never felt so unsure about myself in my life and am on shaky ground. Anything you can tell me to help is greatly appreciated...im losing my mind this is BS I'm only 5'8, athletic can pull any women in. You just need to work on yourself a bit stop using physical as an excuse

Author:	jubula [ Mon Mar 05, 2012 5:01 am ]
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ok iv had have semi the same problem as you and ill give you some spot on advise. first of all muscles dont make a man you make the man. Being as succesful as you say you are is the making of a man you just need to do some soul searching you need to get out visit diffrent places work diffrent places see diffrent men and youll see that most men are mindless shitheads who dont know fck about sht. Go see, take in, live life outside your box the more the better you will learn whats what. Your probably a step above most. as for when your with a chick and your pretending your someone else thats to far out of it, you need to drive the bic like the animal we all are somewhere inside, get loose

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