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| Author: | cghost1 [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 1:56 am ] |
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do any of these systems talk about how to be generally popular? i don't have any trouble picking up girls... i've always been a bit of a natural in that area... but i've never really figured out how to be one of the guys.. ...you know that phrase: every guy wants to be his best friend, every girl wants to have sex with him? i mean that's overstating it but i have the second part down... again, overstatement, but i know how to pick up girls... what i don't know how to do is the first part... ...i work in an industry where it's very useful/important to be part of the "cool guy" group... it's sounds ridiculous (i'm in my mid-30s) but y'know the world is just high school all the time... and in my industry (it's the film industry) i meet new groups of about a 100 people every 3-4 months and we all work closely together during that time... and i have noticed that the "cool guys" always like me at first... but then i get shut out... but like i said, i do well with the girls... so it's really noticeable... i'll be asked to some party by the girl i'm with at the time... who's part of the "cool group" and there's always a point where i can tell the "cool guys" could take me or leave me... i'm only there because the girls want to sleep with me, lol... ...don't get me wrong, i'm not whining about that part, and i'm not whining about the concept of "cool groups"... even though it sounds silly... i am just wondering if i can figure out what i do wrong when i'm hanging around the guys... it's definitely NOT jealousy on their part... or worry about me stealing the girls... it's not like that... and i wouldn't care if it didn't matter for my career... but this kind of networking is important for my job... any thoughts? are there any systems that address this? |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 1:59 am ] |
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Don't brag, don't be annoying, and don't talk too much. Show interest in other people. Ask questions about their interests. People love to talk about themselves. |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 2:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: general popularity |
Really what's going down is you have become so accustomed to a specific outcome that you cause it to happen. When you get the feeling they won't like you, you subconsciously seek approval from them. body language is key. look up rapport. build rapport through body language. |
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