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Author:  SLee [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 2:40 am ]
Post subject:  Problem transfering to the 'second' identity
(This is my first post upon entering this whole new world. )

Before I read "The Game" I was just a shy guy who thought it was the best to be the nicest guy possible to win them. (now my view is completely changed) Thus I acted as an innocent guy with all the pure sentiments and shyness in front of girls.

However, I now realize that that is gay and I won't ever do it again.

The problem is that i still have lovelike feelings for the girl I acted so nicely and did all that oogling shit. So i guess my question comes down to

What is the best way to make her realize that i have completely changed but i am still the guy who cares about her?


I don't think pulling the 'i don't fucking care' attitude will work. Can you give me some ideas?
Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 2:50 am ]
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Game other girls.
Author:  Maxima [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:52 am ]
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Like DJ_Z said, game other girls but also be mindful that when you play the game you risk losing as well. Some other tips though: gain the mindset that "you are the prize" and that people are talking to you because "you are the life of the party". Keep that in the back of you mind but also act like you are the life of the party. Everybody loves the fun guy at the party because he's easy to get along with and because he's interesting/fun. DHV and show that you can offer her something that other guys can't. Hope that helps!
Author:  SidTine [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 6:35 pm ]
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My advice is not to try anything and don`t rush into anything. If you will try do prove her something, it`s no good.
And it`s true, that even the girls, that you think that are smth special and that they don`t fall for guys who are players.. Well, you are wrong. They all fall for them, but it`s all about how are you as a person. You can be hardcore player and at the same time a caring guy, when it comes to someone you really like.
So don`t try anything and just be- Things will come automatically, trust me ;)
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