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Author:  thekp [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:46 pm ]
Post subject:  got her number now what?
Ok got this random girls phone number at the gym. what am I supposed to do now?
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:51 pm ]
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u call her, retard.
Author:  shookie [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:22 pm ]
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u call her, retard.
Wow that was harsh....
I loled :lol:
Author:  Kieran Black [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:26 pm ]
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Harsh but true.
Author:  Midrange [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:48 pm ]
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its a trap! delete the number, girls are gross!
Author:  charblad [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 2:52 am ]
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^everyone above me -
trololol
but yes, true
Author:  seph89 [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:22 am ]
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I'm going to go ahead and offer the OP some ACTUAL advice...fucking douchebags lol...

But they are right though bro, you gotta hit her up.

Let me ask you some questions:
1) How was the number aquired?

2) What common interests do you share with the girl?


The whole idea of the number close is bridging the gap between your first interaction and your next meeting where you would ideally build comfort. Plausible deniability is key here. For example you get her number to let her know about a party coming up, or to schedule a workout together, something...you get the point.

Let me know what's going on and don't hesitate to PM me. I'm here to help bud.

Regards,
Sep
Author:  Maxima [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:47 am ]
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Everything that the guys above said was right. Although some tips are: If she is an HB10 or HB11, make sure not to leave her a message. Girls like that don't respond back to people who leave messages because she most likely has a ton of options/plans to hang with other people. Also, if you guys enjoyed a joke, maybe start the conversation off with that. If you did a good job of conveying the joke, you don't even have to say "Hi its ...," just start the conversation off talking about that joke.
Author:  lloydPapi [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 12:43 pm ]
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its a trap! delete the number, girls are gross
this guy is 100% gay thats right
Author:  Hejsan [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 1:24 pm ]
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I think she gave you her number so she could lure you to her mansion, poison you and eat you afterwards.

I would play along with that one, so call her and ask her out to do something, Coffee, walk in the park or some party together. As far as I know girls like her dont eat people in public areas.
Author:  Midrange [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:25 pm ]
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Ok, so serious advice. How old is she/you? I think it makes a big difference as to whether you should call her or text her.
Author:  Snarg [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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I think you need to call regardless. If you start texting, you won't be able to stop. Texting is a fucking trap and will do nothing but work against you in the future. If you're going to open a can of worms with a woman, do it with a call.
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 5:36 pm ]
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Always call before texting, There isn't enough chemistry before a phone call for successful texting. As a matter of fact, let her initiate the first text messages, you just do the phoning.
Author:  thekp [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 7:13 pm ]
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ok well Im 21 met her at the gym. Im assuming she is 19-22. met at college gym. dont really know her. I tried a coffee date once and it was horible (diferent girl). felt like an interview. so I wanted to try something else. . Also I have been texting her. Next time I will try calling according to your suggestions.


Pretty much. what do you guys do after you get a girls number? especially if there hasnt been any physical contact prior?

Most day game advice I see is about getting numbers etc, lowering anxiety. not to much advice what to do after the number

Also I would say she is a 7. I dont really remember what she looks like though. If I saw her I wouldnt recognize.
Author:  Midrange [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 7:20 pm ]
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I dunno but I have to really disagree with the calling thing especially with the below 25 crowd. people just don't do it anymore. since texting is by far more popular than calling, if you call right away, it can come across as a bit odd. texting is a super easy way to start some flirtation and build up some attraction.

now, if you simply don't like texting.. then by all means, give her a call. but i think you'll find out that sooner or later, you're going to have to start learning to text and use it to your advantage. if you do have to call, you're not going to have anything to say or talk about. i would use that just as a quick way to set up a date and have her be on the spot for a quick response.
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