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| Author: | Tjeut [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 1:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Question about kino and opener |
Imagine ur in a nightclub, high energy, loud.. If u make a direct approach u kino right away? Or is that creepy? And what about a c/f opener? Like saying: "Ur standing here 5mins and haven't said hi". |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 2:31 am ] |
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I wouldn't say you would kino IMMEDIATELY. Like, don't go up to a girl and start molesting her. Open first, build some shallow amount of rapport, then you can start with some light kino like a quick touch on the arm/shoulder, then escalate from there. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 2:33 am ] |
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First off...let's drop the term c/f. Let's say "playful" from now on, because usually when guys say cocky/funny they end up saying something really rude with a cheap grin thinking that'll handle it. That aside, the hell do you mean by kino? Kino is any kind of physical touch, so you have to be more specific. Shaking her hand isn't creepy, but groping her would be creepy...and fairly illegal too. |
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| Author: | charblad [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question about kino and opener |
Quote: Imagine ur in a nightclub, high energy, loud.. Kino is any touching, so yes; shake her hand (or hug if you think you can do that without being creepy) and there, your touching her.If u make a direct approach u kino right away? Or is that creepy? And what about a c/f opener? Like saying: "Ur standing here 5mins and haven't said hi". You do need to build rapport to do higher level kino, but luckily enough shaking hands and saying "hi" is the first 50% of rapport needed. c/f openers are never a good way to start off imo; to many guys use the same canned c/f stuff and never try to be themselves, and girls are WAY to used to it. Just think about the situation and think of a good observation opener or something - what's she drinking, is she moving a lot or talking to a lot of people, is she staying close to her friend ect. |
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