After some time and thought, I have decided to give Latina women a go. Well, South American women and specifically Colombian women. I live close enough to Mexico so we have plenty of Mexican women, but they're a different type than South American/European Spanish type of women from Colombia, Argentina, Venezuela, etc. I like that they are passionate, extremely sexy with curves and beautiful hair/bodies, they take pride in looking hot always, they are very feminine and classy, party girls, friendly, funny, sensual, and they like to take care of their man. They require a tremendous amount of attention, but I am down for that when it's an extremely sexy woman I like. In the past, my girlfriend's didn't want enough affection aka sex and it was annoying to me. I wasn't just a sex fiend but it was a problem I found. So - Latina women seem to be a perfect fit. They can be very very jealous but if you find girls in Miami who have lived here a few years they soften up just a bit (Not really haha!).
Fortunately, you can use jealousy to your advantage and these women tend to love American white dudes. Now, I'm not talking about finding a money-grubbing or Visa chasing gold digger. I'm talking about a straight up sexy, upper class, good family, educated, party girl from Colombia, Venezuela, Argentina, etc. I picked Colombian because that's my deal and I met this girl through college friends who is straight up a HB9 no lies. Exactly if you mixed Penelope Cruz + Sofia Vergara. I dig. 5yrs in Miami from Colombia, good family, smart, sexy as all hell but not slutty...you know classy Latina party girl. Does some modeling and Spanish dancing in Miami (that's typical of hot Latina girls). She's always the hottest girl even among her very hot S. American beauty friends. Speaks good English kind of like Sofia Vergara but without speaking some Spanish I'd never have been able to get in with her.
So she's a nice girl but she knows how to play the game and it's incredibly difficult to resist these Colombian women. They are extremely open and passionate but also still play the games every woman does. There's also not a shortage of Latin dudes trying to get at her constantly, and I'm sure they resent the hell out of some white boy trying to steal their girl. Well, that's not unusual. It was a real challenge for me because I had to learn the culture and there's some differences but on top of that she also present the same issues as any legitimate HB9.
I met her thru a college friend when visiting my current city, but she never responded whatsoever and had a longtime boyfriend. I respect she's not a ho, but we were Facebook friends. I basically wrote off ever meeting her and just did my swagger as usual on Facebook...then suddenly a year later she hits me up and from there we go. It has been quite an experience.
Some tips I found:
-These girls truly are very open/passionate so it's natural for them to show much more affection/interest than typical American/Euro girls. It will throw you off, but it's genuine. They are just lovers. Don't think they won't play you though.
-Family is huge, so if you talk to her about your family and ask about hers that works very well
-They don't want scuzzy ass players but like any woman they want to know women want you. They just want to think you want them most, and it makes them competitive to win your attention. Many Colombian dudes tend to be players/treat them less respectfully and they're tired of it.
-Language Barrier - If you want the best girls, you'll need to speak some Spanish. Otherwise I'd of lost her interest. It's tough enough keeping it as is now.
-You'll have to be much more outgoing/flowery in your language and more "passionate"/romantic. It's just what they're used to and they're showered by compliments in their culture. They are also very passionate and sexual so it'll be worth your while.
-Culture/Language Knowledge - These girls are very proud of Colombia usually and specifically which area they're from (Medellin, Cartagena, Cali, etc) If you show true knowledge of her culture and speak some Spanish, it will go a long way. Also, just be curious and ask her about it. If the girl likes you, she'll likely offer to be your Spanish teacher and obviously accept it. They apparently find it cute when you speak Spanglish or broken Spanish, so don't be self conscious and just go with it. SpanishDict (dot com) is the best translator I saw. Those translators can make you look like a fool, so always translate something then translate it back to verify it makes sense.
I had a hard time because you have to be more outgoing, passionate, romantic, etc but you also have to pull back. I use my novice version of push/pull on her as I do with all women. It's much easier with American girls to the point I can predict attractive women's responses to my words/actions and even their timing basically with relative ease. With Latina women it's different due to culture and inexperience.
She had kind of not been responding that well and I was looking to firm up plans for a Spring Break weekend getaway to Miami, so needed to know she was totally in for it before I'd do something like that. I've been wanting to go and am gonna meet a few best friends there, but I obv want the girl too. She had got to me with her sexy Colombian woman charms and the things she says and well the picture she sent me...I was having a hard time because I'm not used to American women being so damn sexy. I got my shit together and kind of acted like a dick about 1 thing which made her mad, which was very sexy, and then I pulled her back and after that I clearly got in good with her. It wasn't quite all the way though and I knew it, so I had to do one last thing.
I just acted cool and didn't flirt with other girls, but I'd talk to them when they hit me up on my facebook. I sent her a message one day "Hey sexy, blah blah have a good day" then just iced it. Put your phone away if needed, but yah she hit me up at work and I would normally have hit her back within an hour or two but decided to let it go. She texted me again, "When are you going to come to Miamiiiiiiiiii
"I figured I'd be in the shower, and so I waited 30 more minutes then I get: "No te quieres
U completely hate me and ur not even going to answer ?"(You don't want me/love me)
I texted her back like "Oh sorry I didn't see your message! Just got out of the shower, you know I like you--ttys alright?"
It worked like a charm of course and this is literally by far the sexiest girl I've ever talked to and I mean even my female friends jealousy have to admit it. It's crazy for a girl that hot to doubt herself in that way, because I am a good looking guy with some game but I'm by no means a male model.
If this is helpful, awesome and I'd be interested in any tips or experiences you've had with Latina women
