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| Author: | CASANOVA J019 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 7:35 pm ] |
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Basically in short, I always seem to settle for second best and I have no idea why. I do have girls in my life, but in terms of attractiveness there just average. I am a good looking lad and I am very outgoing and confident person, but I just seem to never quite get the really hot girl that I am truly after. I want to go from the step of just getting girls to actually getting like WTF she is hot like hitting HB8,9's instead of just plodding along at 6,7's. Any suggestions? Anyone felt like this before? |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:09 am ] |
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Could it be that you feel less nervous around the "lower scoring" women, and therefore you make fewer mistakes? |
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| Author: | Midrange [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 4:03 am ] |
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need more info. it could be your game. or it could be that you're subconsciously not confident enough for the hotter girls, so you end up settling thinking that its easier and better for your ego to go for the less attractive girls. |
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| Author: | CASANOVA J019 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 12:06 pm ] |
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yea your possibly correct, it could be my ego, makes my ego feel better knowing that i can get girls, but destroys it when i cant get hot girls. I mainly do day game, but my voice could be weaker possibly when talking to really hot girls that I just havent picked up on, but im just not sure. Its just annoying really cause i havent really been with any girls that i am like really wild about and cant wait to see again and i just feel i can do so much better |
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| Author: | CASANOVA J019 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 12:30 pm ] |
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I think it could also be down to me believing that I am not good enough for a really hot girl and that I simply just don't deserve a really hot girl, but I don't know why I have these thoughts |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 1:50 pm ] |
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It's all a matter of self-confidence and a strong frame of mind. If you believe you're capable of pulling in the 10s, you'll be surprised at how easy it really is. But you can't pretend - you have to really, truly, 100% believe that you can do it. If you can't wrap your mind around it, try reading a few books to enhance your understanding of the matter. It's amazing how much your personality and philosophies can change just by reading a few books on subjects like body language, NLP, seduction, etc. It will make you feel like you have the tools (or even weapons) you need to be successful. |
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| Author: | CASANOVA J019 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:18 pm ] |
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I know what you mean, i think it is the fact that I believe I just cant get a smokin hot girl, but i really am capable. Ive read all the typical books like mystery method and natural art of seduction, and I have been on a bootcamp and I was with a smokin hot girl then and I loved it and was dancin with her etc, but since then i just dont seem to be convinced i can do it again, but i need to get out of this mindset. I have number closed hot girls but bad text game on my behalf fucked that up but i think i just need to change my mindset a little and just start believing. thanks for the help, feel free to add to this |
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