PUA Forum :: Age disparity, and game? What do you guys think?

At 28 you shouldn't have a problem with girls 18-21. You are still considered young.

I recently turned 38 and girls in their early-mid 20s are still attracted to me (actually much more than they were when I was actually in my 20s). It's not uncommon that I have one or two come up to me when I'm out in a bar over the course of a night. I take care of myself and kill myself in the gym though so I don't look that old.

Like Skills said though I try to never bring up age with these women. I just let the natural attraction make the call. Attraction is attraction- it doesn't know age.

Bringing up age burned me once though - I met this hot girl in her mid 20s at a bar. We got really hot and heavy during the night and exchanged phone numbers. On the first meeting after that I accidentally let out my age and she gave a 'huh' response with a negative tone. She dissapeared after that. Not positive that's why she dissapeared but she sounded somewhat negative towards it.

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that does not sound right that you say the age and that was the cause of her losing attraction, are you sure it was that????

She contacted me first afterwards via text message and we made plans to meet up again. I was pretty sure she was a definite lay going into the first date based on the night we had but she just gave me a hug hello so I treated it like a regular date and built a ton of comfort and rapport. We got along really well actually. At the end of the date though she was REALLY quick to kiss me on the cheek as if to avoid me trying to make out with her or something. But regardless she wanted to go on another date.

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Yep i knew it, here is were you fucked up, you took too long to escalate and do your thing, and "date" = death, what did you do on the date? when you go on dates aka traditional dating it gives the hb time to micro analyze shit, so she will nip pick, part of that nip picking was yes, the age, but all that could have been avoided, if you would have perform, the right way, which you did not, in the meet up date, before the third date were you disclosed the age, you failed into the "boyfriend category prospect possibility" i am pretty sure, if you would have done your thing "fucked her " or heavy escalation, in the meet up, the other stuff would not have happened...As i always say fuck first, then work your way backwards toward relationship possibility... And do not do dates!

Author:	needforspeed [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 1:50 pm ]
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Hi guys, I am interested in learning how you find Game effects the age of girls that you can date or have success with, in particular if you are getting 18-21 years, old and you are mid thirties, hitting fourty? I'm actually 28 right now but still only attracted to that age group.. How possible is it to have success with younger women as an older man? Thanks Lee

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:04 pm ]
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at 28 you can still target that age group with no problem, try not to touch the age subject till they are invested in you how old are you?? say 69, i am 36 i am still get 19-21 girls, but i am not attracted to them so i do not target them, your taste will change eventually...just like when you were 19 you were not attracted to 11 year olds.. specially when you start fucking 24 and over sex much much much better..

Author:	bp029 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:43 pm ]
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At 28 you shouldn't have a problem with girls 18-21. You are still considered young. I recently turned 38 and girls in their early-mid 20s are still attracted to me (actually much more than they were when I was actually in my 20s). It's not uncommon that I have one or two come up to me when I'm out in a bar over the course of a night. I take care of myself and kill myself in the gym though so I don't look that old. Like Skills said though I try to never bring up age with these women. I just let the natural attraction make the call. Attraction is attraction- it doesn't know age. Bringing up age burned me once though - I met this hot girl in her mid 20s at a bar. We got really hot and heavy during the night and exchanged phone numbers. On the first meeting after that I accidentally let out my age and she gave a 'huh' response with a negative tone. She dissapeared after that. Not positive that's why she dissapeared but she sounded somewhat negative towards it.

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:01 pm ]
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Quote: At 28 you shouldn't have a problem with girls 18-21. You are still considered young. I recently turned 38 and girls in their early-mid 20s are still attracted to me (actually much more than they were when I was actually in my 20s). It's not uncommon that I have one or two come up to me when I'm out in a bar over the course of a night. I take care of myself and kill myself in the gym though so I don't look that old. Like Skills said though I try to never bring up age with these women. I just let the natural attraction make the call. Attraction is attraction- it doesn't know age. Bringing up age burned me once though - I met this hot girl in her mid 20s at a bar. We got really hot and heavy during the night and exchanged phone numbers. On the first meeting after that I accidentally let out my age and she gave a 'huh' response with a negative tone. She dissapeared after that. Not positive that's why she dissapeared but she sounded somewhat negative towards it. that does not sound right that you say the age and that was the cause of her losing attraction, are you sure it was that????

Author:	bp029 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:51 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: At 28 you shouldn't have a problem with girls 18-21. You are still considered young. I recently turned 38 and girls in their early-mid 20s are still attracted to me (actually much more than they were when I was actually in my 20s). It's not uncommon that I have one or two come up to me when I'm out in a bar over the course of a night. I take care of myself and kill myself in the gym though so I don't look that old. Like Skills said though I try to never bring up age with these women. I just let the natural attraction make the call. Attraction is attraction- it doesn't know age. Bringing up age burned me once though - I met this hot girl in her mid 20s at a bar. We got really hot and heavy during the night and exchanged phone numbers. On the first meeting after that I accidentally let out my age and she gave a 'huh' response with a negative tone. She dissapeared after that. Not positive that's why she dissapeared but she sounded somewhat negative towards it. that does not sound right that you say the age and that was the cause of her losing attraction, are you sure it was that???? What do you think? When we met at the bar it was an instant attraction. We started dancing which quickly lead to heavy making out. At the end of the night we exchanged phone numbers. She contacted me first afterwards via text message and we made plans to meet up again. I was pretty sure she was a definite lay going into the first date based on the night we had but she just gave me a hug hello so I treated it like a regular date and built a ton of comfort and rapport. We got along really well actually. At the end of the date though she was REALLY quick to kiss me on the cheek as if to avoid me trying to make out with her or something. But regardless she wanted to go on another date. Date #2 is when I was talking about my family and said my age. Again, I'm not saying that's why but... I dunno. At the end of the date again she kisses me on the cheek. That's the last I heard from her. It could've been that I didn't make an attempt to rebuild that initial attraction and was mostly just having friendly conversation with her. Sad thing is that I really wound up liking her so it sucked when she dissapeared.

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Author:	skills360 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:19 pm ]
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Quote: She contacted me first afterwards via text message and we made plans to meet up again. I was pretty sure she was a definite lay going into the first date based on the night we had but she just gave me a hug hello so I treated it like a regular date and built a ton of comfort and rapport. We got along really well actually. At the end of the date though she was REALLY quick to kiss me on the cheek as if to avoid me trying to make out with her or something. But regardless she wanted to go on another date. Yep i knew it, here is were you fucked up, you took too long to escalate and do your thing, and "date" = death, what did you do on the date? when you go on dates aka traditional dating it gives the hb time to micro analyze shit, so she will nip pick, part of that nip picking was yes, the age, but all that could have been avoided, if you would have perform, the right way, which you did not, in the meet up date, before the third date were you disclosed the age, you failed into the "boyfriend category prospect possibility" i am pretty sure, if you would have done your thing "fucked her " or heavy escalation, in the meet up, the other stuff would not have happened...As i always say fuck first, then work your way backwards toward relationship possibility... And do not do dates!

Author:	bp029 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:46 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: She contacted me first afterwards via text message and we made plans to meet up again. I was pretty sure she was a definite lay going into the first date based on the night we had but she just gave me a hug hello so I treated it like a regular date and built a ton of comfort and rapport. We got along really well actually. At the end of the date though she was REALLY quick to kiss me on the cheek as if to avoid me trying to make out with her or something. But regardless she wanted to go on another date. Yep i knew it, here is were you fucked up, you took too long to escalate and do your thing, and "date" = death, what did you do on the date? when you go on dates aka traditional dating it gives the hb time to micro analyze shit, so she will nip pick, part of that nip picking was yes, the age, but all that could have been avoided, if you would have perform, the right way, which you did not, in the meet up date, before the third date were you disclosed the age, you failed into the "boyfriend category prospect possibility" i am pretty sure, if you would have done your thing "fucked her " or heavy escalation, in the meet up, the other stuff would not have happened...As i always say fuck first, then work your way backwards toward relationship possibility... And do not do dates! Yea Skillz you hit the nail on the head. There was no physical escalation during the two follow-up dates. I had lots of opportunities too but I played the nice guy. She obviously got bored.

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