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Author:  MiddleMan [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 11:35 am ]
Post subject:  How to win Ex back after no real reason - help me out
Hi guys,

After 7 months of we have been together of the most best time we had, even she said so. She also said the sex was the best and everything basicly, never had so good. Before we started, she was in a relationship with someone for close to 3 years and the guy was cheating on her and she found out so i think she is also kinda scared. So, she started working, like working alot, from 7am to 11pm every day and we saw each other in last month 2-3 times a week for few hours. i am writing all this so you know my situation. She said she doesnt act like that in a relathisnhip and thats why want to break up. So basicly no real reason and she needs to fins herself now first and might regret this. What it really interesting is that she was crying at that time in my lap for more then an hour like a small baby and its clearly that she still loves me so i am abit confused right now. I was chill and showed no feelings, hard as rock :P
Although i am not contacting her or nothing. So help would be appreciated since i really like this girl.
Author:  MiddleMan [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:09 pm ]
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if you need to know any other detail, let me know so we can start this discoussion. Would to hear your tohughts.
Author:  Snarg [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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Why were you "chill and showed no feelings"? You do know it's kind of your duty, as her boyfriend, to comfort her with shit like this, right?

Are you sure she's working from 7am to 11pm seven days per week? That's 112 hours per week. I also don't understand why it took 7 months for her to come to the realization that there's a problem.
Author:  MiddleMan [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:48 pm ]
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Why were you "chill and showed no feelings"? You do know it's kind of your duty, as her boyfriend, to comfort her with shit like this, right?

Are you sure she's working from 7am to 11pm seven days per week? That's 112 hours per week. I also don't understand why it took 7 months for her to come to the realization that there's a problem.
i did comfort her, what i wanted to tell is that i didnt cry also, so i wouldnt be like a pussy. And yes i am correct about working hours, she gets up at 7 and works till 7 pm and then she has another work and thats for sure. Why it took her 7 months is because the past 6 months were awesome, the last month she started acting weird before that, everything was fine.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:00 pm ]
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There could be someone else...

Just let the situation be, don't contact her.. If she wants you she will be contacting you soon. If she's happy with the other guy you won't here from her :)
Author:  MiddleMan [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:54 pm ]
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There could be someone else...

Just let the situation be, don't contact her.. If she wants you she will be contacting you soon. If she's happy with the other guy you won't here from her :)
There is no one else, trust me on this one ;) dont even think that i am wrong just believe me.
Author:  Cognizant1 [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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There could be someone else...

Just let the situation be, don't contact her.. If she wants you she will be contacting you soon. If she's happy with the other guy you won't here from her :)
There is no one else, trust me on this one ;) dont even think that i am wrong just believe me.
Oneittis.
Author:  Snarg [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 2:58 am ]
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There could be someone else...

Just let the situation be, don't contact her.. If she wants you she will be contacting you soon. If she's happy with the other guy you won't here from her :)
There is no one else, trust me on this one ;) dont even think that i am wrong just believe me.
Oneittis.
What? Try reading the posts next time please. You have a bad habit of giving generalized, nonsensical advice it seems, friend. He was clearly saying that the woman has no one else on the radar - not him.

Regardless of whether there is anyone else though, something is happening that is making her feel this way - some reason for a loss of interest. Try stepping it up a bit with her and do something to make her feel special and see if she starts to come around. Is that feasible?
Author:  MisterRon [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:46 am ]
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matt hudson "get your ex back" buy it and follow it, best thing you will ever do.
Author:  MiddleMan [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 11:02 am ]
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There is no one else, trust me on this one ;) dont even think that i am wrong just believe me.
Oneittis.
What? Try reading the posts next time please. You have a bad habit of giving generalized, nonsensical advice it seems, friend. He was clearly saying that the woman has no one else on the radar - not him.

Regardless of whether there is anyone else though, something is happening that is making her feel this way - some reason for a loss of interest. Try stepping it up a bit with her and do something to make her feel special and see if she starts to come around. Is that feasible?
i think here is the problem, that i already did that to make her feel special, probably i was trying too hard few times when i should just take it more easy. It also seems that girl has some personal issues. we talked today over the phone and its clear that she still likes me and didnt want to hang up and she wants to go eat with me but i clearly said to her that i dont want to be "friends" with her since there is no point in that cause it will just be bad for me. We were together from day 1 so its really impossible.
Author:  Snarg [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 1:56 pm ]
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Excellent response to the friendship thing. Most guys back down and say "Fine, we can be friends. By the way, I'm a spineless bitch."

So you're saying you probably gave too much upfront and now she's left with an "ordinary" relationship? I used to have that problem - I'd go all-out to make a woman feel appreciated and would go way over the top, then once it became too expensive and taxing I'd have to back down and then she'd lose interest since she was spoiled. If that's how you feel it is in your situation, you're going to unfortunately need to give her a lot of time away from you. Stop responding to her texts, don't answer phone calls, etc. Make it clear that you have no intention of staying in her life. If all goes well, things can be fixed. Just don't get too hung up on it.
Author:  MiddleMan [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 5:56 pm ]
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Excellent response to the friendship thing. Most guys back down and say "Fine, we can be friends. By the way, I'm a spineless bitch."

So you're saying you probably gave too much upfront and now she's left with an "ordinary" relationship? I used to have that problem - I'd go all-out to make a woman feel appreciated and would go way over the top, then once it became too expensive and taxing I'd have to back down and then she'd lose interest since she was spoiled. If that's how you feel it is in your situation, you're going to unfortunately need to give her a lot of time away from you. Stop responding to her texts, don't answer phone calls, etc. Make it clear that you have no intention of staying in her life. If all goes well, things can be fixed. Just don't get too hung up on it.
i dont feel she is spoiled but she did like all the atention and what i came up with, i was good at making unqiue stuff and unique dates, it wasnt all about buying but about creating a good enviroment and all.. i really perfected it lol
Yeah, i will do that with the phone calls and everything - figured that part out :)
Author:  MiddleMan [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 10:35 pm ]
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tnx for all the help/info guys, lets see what happen and if you ahve anything else to add i will be very glad to read it :D tnx again
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