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Author:  SKSpua [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 11:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Been seeing a girl for a month

We have a great time, have sex, we both have admitted that we're not dating anyone else yet she says its too soon to put a label on it when I asked if she wanted a relationship. Should I start seeing other people? Give it time? What would you do?

Author:  Snarg [ Sun Feb 26, 2012 11:58 pm ]
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If she isn't willing to commit, feel free to see other people. Unfortunately, that's likely what she's doing anyway. When a woman refuses to commit and gives you the "I don't want to put a label on it" speech, that typically means she's juggling men or is having trouble getting over an ex.

Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Feb 27, 2012 12:32 am ]
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Last time a girl told me she just wasn't ready for a label and the commitment that came with it, she started dating a guy a week after dropping me. Hell, even once sent me a text accidentally saying "eric can i come up pleeeeeeeeeeeease?" and for the record, my name isn't DJ_E for a reason.

If you can't handle something casual, drop her. Otherwise, start looking for new women. That title, that you are in a relationship, carries with it a promise of monogamy. If she doesn't want the title, she doesn't want the monogamy. So go find a few other girls. Just because you're not fuckin other people AT THE MOMENT doesn't mean she has no desire to do so.

Author:  SKSpua [ Mon Feb 27, 2012 1:00 am ]
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Thanks guys. For some reason I've always had this guilt about dating multiple women. I know I shouldn't, but I do.

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