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| Author: | SomeGuyItaly [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What should I do next? |
Alright, recently I got friendzoned by this girl. We've still been talking. She told me to stop flirting with her and I needed to respect her. So I backed up a little. She later asked me if I still had feelings for her. I said "Sure I do but nothing that a strip club can't fix." She laughed and said "Wait, why don't you just hook up with some?" I said "You know that feeling where you know it's better to just move on but you'd rather stick around and cause it's a good feeling?" She was like "Wow, you never really showed me that side of you." Did I react like a pussy? If so what's the best thing I can do now. |
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| Author: | Seville [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:06 pm ] |
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Don't get it twisted man, what some may think is reacting like a pussy can sometimes be a good person understanding and controlling their emotions. At this point I would back off of her for a week a see what happens when you re-engage. Maybe even longer. Then judge your next move from there. It'll also allow you to step out of the situation and see things in a better light. |
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| Author: | green_mo [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 12:47 pm ] |
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Leave her alone a little bit, don't call or hang out with her about one week, after a week call her, and do a little chat. If she calls you even better. If you see that she only wanna be friend, you are stucked in friend zone, than move on another girl, it's wasting your time on her. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 5:52 pm ] |
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like they've already told you, stop talking to her. wait for her to come back to you. if she never does, thats probably the best thing for you long term. but she probably will text or call you after a while. when she does, just dont be so available. have other things to do. dont respond to all her texts and calls. when you do respond, wait a while. most importantly, just talk to other girls and do fun stuff. youll soon realize you dont need her and shes not that important to you. and ffs, stop dealing with dumb shit like "do you still have feelings for me?". dont ever give legitimacy to stuff like that by responding logically. |
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| Author: | SomeGuyItaly [ Fri Feb 24, 2012 2:54 am ] |
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Thanks everyone for all your help |
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