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Author:  Salieri [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 4:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Conversation went pretty good, now...what?

Well, the thing is, I've used Darth Vader's best opener (thanks man, you the best!), it went DAMN GOOD. I've talked to the girl last night on facebook, the conversation went very good, talked to her again today a bit, then almost at the final of the conversation it went like this:

Me: Coffee or tea?
Her: Tea.
Me: Today or tomorrow?
Her: I can't yet, I won't go out with anybody a period of time.
Me: Why?
Her: I just broke up with my bf yesterday (just the first day when I "entered" her life, o.O and that's true, checked her bf's facebook and he is in another relationship now lol.)
Me: And I have a math test tomorow.
Her: What?
Me: I thought we were talking things that doesn't interest us. Alright then, get over it cause I want you to be mentally prepared when we meet.
Her: Alright, I'll sure do.

She's friendly, last night the conversation was a bit sexual too and humorous, it all went well.
My question is this: What do you suggest to do now, guys? How much should I wait, and how should I "reopen" the invite when it's the time?

Apreciate it! Thanks.

Author:  Snarg [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 4:36 pm ]
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There's no turning back now, but I just want to give you some advice for next time. You started that conversation off pretty well (probably because it was an opener you read from the internet), then kind of shit the bed. Telling her to get over her boyfriend who she just broke up with the day before is pretty bad. And randomly talking about the math test and things that don't interest you is only good if she's actually still with her boyfriend or interested in some other guy and won't stop talking about him. You basically told her that you don't give a shit about her problems and that she's boring you after only 4-5 lines of conversation.

Alright, so let's focus on the present now. She's still trying to get over her boyfriend for obvious reasons and she's made it clear she doesn't want to date anyone. You need to back off a bit and not talk to her too much. Now is simply in inopportune time to go after her. If you see her regularly, gauge her body language and the way she talks to you, and try to sneak a quick flirt in here and there to see what happens. You'll know when the time is right to ask her out again when she seems to respond well to flirting.

Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 5:07 pm ]
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If you rely on lines you find over then internet instead of your own personality you will land exactly where you landed right here pretty much every time. You can start up another conversation in 2-3 days but don't get your hopes up

Author:  Salieri [ Sun Feb 19, 2012 6:01 pm ]
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Thanks for your answers guys. I'll keep you in touch of what's going on. I really apreciate it! ;)

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