It means she's prefaced hanging out with you as conditional. In all likelihood she's involved with someone already, or is being courted by someone. Either way, it doesn't matter because she's giving you an opportunity. Don't concern yourself with 'why'.
When a person opens up to you, it's a good indication they feel comfort around you, OR simply that they have weak boundaries (as often is the case). Take it in stride, frame it as interest whether its the former or later case.
But all this is just mental masturbation.
Here's what we do know:
1. It appears as though she wants to hangout with you, or is at least open to the idea.
2. She wants to have fun.
Here's your task:
1. Get her out. Don't ask, just simply say you're going to do something and she'd have lots of fun accompanying you. I don't care what it is, you can say you're going to Magic Mountain this weekend and casually give her an invite. If she wants to go with you she'll make the effort. Tell her to bring a change of panties...you know, in case she wets herself on some of the rides;)
2. Put it out of your mind that you've got to win her over. Your objective is to simply take a chick out and have a good time, an awesome time. Nothing more, nothing less. If you make a girl feel good about herself (e.g. by being positive, upbeat, and present minded) and show her a good time, she'll ALWAYS come back for more.
Engage!
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" a couple of messages later she said "im not jumping to conclusions or anything im just letting you know my relationship status is complicated at the moment". What does this mean for me do i still have a chance did i screw up? Any help would be much appreciated guys thanks.