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| Author: | convivalAFC [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | People putting me off my game |
When i'm in a group of people ( boys and girls ) i seem to start talking and just seem relaxed but anything i say some guy has to say something about it. Like anything in general, when some guy has something to say, he'll start laughing and say " haha that's typical of you " and look at all the girls making it awkward. I just stare at him emotionless like, yh i don't give a fuck and then people will be like " why are you so moody " I'm doing the more adultly thing by ignoring it because that's a clear sign to say " hey stop man, this is my warning " but he still does it. I'm not being a ego bitch, but i'm good looking like above average so i get a lot of IOIs from women. So i think this guy uses this technique to ruin my chats, even when I'm just chilling he'll say something. How do you react to people like this |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 2:14 pm ] |
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for a week or two, you should just practise agreeing with people like that, it should put things in perspective for you with how people around you will react, when someone says something negative aimed towards you, instead of fighting the flow of the current, just go with it and then flip the conversation in the direction you want, example: cockblock: haha that typical of you you: totally cockblock: haha your so gay you:gay as fuck cockblock: yah sure, thats sounds like it sucked shit to me you: you think everything sounds like shit just pay attention to exactly what the person is saying, don't get angry about it, or sad about it, or relate some sort of emotion to it, just pay attention to the words used, and just continue with the flow of the conversation, if you don't like the topic being negative about you, take the flow, and change the thread of the conversation into something else, if he keeps doing it and doing it, just start a pissing contest (if you can keep a level head) and always qualify him to doing something negative, I like to just use ''gay'' as a qualifier for things as it tends to get reactions out of alot of guys, you just bait them and when their emotional state turns negative, stop baiting, and just be positive and start ignoring their shit and just go back to going with the flow example of qualifier, cb:haha that was awkward dude you:totally awkward, hey tell us about the time when you were *random thing about him that actually happened*, that was totally gay as fuck, haha |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 2:19 pm ] |
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"Just ignore them" is advice your mother is gonna give you. Totally useless in this context. First off, her perspective is from a woman who is married with kids and has no need for anything, never had to fight her way up the male hierarchy ladder. For you, this advice does more harm than good. Do what pumpington says, agree with them. Just agree, not in a sarcastic way or anything just agree. THeir comment does not have the effect they hope for and you are untouchable and not giving them any credit for being idiots. Thats the way of the superior male. |
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