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| Author: | lobby-1234 [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hapiness? sucess, money |
wel I know their are lots of people in these forum who talk about happines, sucess and all those bullshit, wel i am one of them. haha ok wel for some reason i always felt like their is something misssing in my life so i went to look for it and i realize it was girls. so i learn pick up shit and all those bla bla bla... but even before that i am not really sure if i was a happy guy, because i dont know how long someone has to be happy, to be a happy guy. coz even before i wasn,t that depressed about not being able to talk to girls coz deep down i believe that sooner or later i am gonna get it because i have very strong will power. so i learn it and i started to get more comfortable with people and stuff but going out on street and attracting girls not really that good, but recently i have been going out and taking this shit seriouse for a while and i am getting better reason and today when i go out, i feel like my result is worse. and i kind a feel like shit and i realize that hapiness from sucess is just temporary. and it can also have negative effect like this one. so i thought for a long time what bring happiness, so here is what hapiiness means to me. hapiness comes from hard work - which means if you work hard and then you get somthing you want and you feel like you deserve it. which explain most lazy people are unhappy. hapiness is also how you think - which means things that happen you dont really have any controll over it mostof the time, but its all inside your head the way you think. example today i went out get bad result. ( negative thinking- fuck i suck man, i am pussy ass bitch, whats wrong with me, i even get worse) (positive thinking - damn i am a pussy ass bitch today but fuck i atleast went out and atleast i am trying something and i will do next time better. their are lots of other stuff where hapiness comes from like being social, doing different things, eating healthy food. anyway i am still confuse about this hapiness stuff please anyone who wanna share join us. __________________ |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Thu Feb 16, 2012 2:01 am ] |
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There is a lot of material online and in print about being in the moment, remaining positive, and meditating to cultivate your inner peace. I definitely subscribe to that school of thought. Working hard for things, and seeing the results of your hard work is another way to make yourself happy. Soon you will realize that it only makes you happy as long as you continue to challenge yourself. If you go to bars every night and find a fat girl to come home with you, you will quickly find that the sex becomes stale and you have no sense of accomplishment. You need to work to always push yourself to the next level. |
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