I work under a 3 strikes policy. If a girl bails on me 3 times while never trying to offer a plan I no longer deal with. So by my standard, I'd give her 1 more chance (once for bailing on you that night, and once for not answering a question). But I should point out a couple other things. First off, never try to guilt a girl like your text "nice that you came" it just makes you look petty and childish. Second, continue gaming other girls. If you look at moving past her as losing, you're in for some trouble. Some girls just aren't into you, and guys have a bad habit of misinterpreting anything as an "ioi" because it keeps their ego whole. The reason it's called game isn't so much about winning and losing, in my opinion, but because games are not meant to be taken seriously. Take a deep breath, laugh it off, and go about your life. It wouldn't be tough to meet another girl,