sorry for the LONG post but I want to make the whole picture clear, plus it's my first post ever so why not. I would say I have some game but I'm no "PUA".
So me and a couple buddies invited some of our friends (who are girls) to hangout at his place and watch some tv/chill/music/have drinks... I'm 20 and they are all 18 so I already kinda have an advantage.. HB7 (friend) brought a friend of hers (HB9), and I was stunned with how cute and hot she was, perfect combo! So throughout the night i'm throwing some negs, DHV's and although she seems like the quiet type, I can tell by her body language she's kinda into me. Got her #, texted her a couple days later
so we plan a group hangout again, same people for the next weekend and during texts she says "Are you going this weekend? Cause I was hoping I'd see you there
" So I killed the convo soon after, (don't wanna drag anything on when I know I'll be seeing her in person soon enough).Next weekend happens, we are all playing drinking games (theres a good 12 people at his house so its a decent sized get-together), and me and her are having obvious sexual tension (we didnt even talk that much!!!!), our conversations weren't deep.. I would just tease her a little bit and we'd talk about pointless stuff pretty much, music etc.. Since I'm drinking and we both want weed my buddy (I would call him a PUA and a good bro) offers to drive us there, we both sit in the backseat of my car and flirting/teasing etc. before I know it we're full on making out in the backseat and her shirt is coming off.. long story short we end up going for a walk when we get back to blaze and have a smoke on the side of the house one thing leads to another and we go from making out to everything but actually fucking..
We walk back in and hang out with friends and pretend like nothing happened, for the rest of the night any time we got alone we'd just start going at it like animals (although we never got so far as removing clothes like we had earlier due to situation). By this point I'm really starting to realize she's the quiet horny type (or maybe she's just quiet around me cause she knows I'm older I dont know?)..
This is where everything gets weird... i text her the next day and everything seems fine, long story short again, we end up hanging out that night at a different friends house (who was also at the "party"), with the same girls. HB7 from earlier drags HB9 along (even though I knew she didn't want to go out that night from texting "she said she was too tired" this raised flags for me a little bit..). And the night ends up being pretty lame... nothing went down and I just wasn't feeling it (we had no alone time the whole night).
She seemed suuuper tired, and said like 20 words the whole night (and the girls said she said like 1 sentence the whole night when she was with them so it wasn't just with me). We were only alone for a total of maybe 2 minutes the whole night and during that time I'm still not sure whether I made a mistake but i was negging her a little bit for being quiet and then got serious and asked if she was awkward about the previous night... (fuck! shouldn't of done it but I did). She said she wasn't awkward she just gets really quiet when shes baked and tired and can't think of anything to say... I couldn't hold a conversation with her that night because she was literally NOT TALKING to anyone, unless spoken to.
We texted on sunday for a bit and it seemed like her interest level had dropped a little, although she was still replying to all my texts and making some conversation. It seems like shes playing hard to get now and is one of those girls that KNOWS she is hot so she can say whatever she wants...
ex. we were talking about sushi and going out to eat and she said she doesn't like salmon, so I negged her lightly and said "really, you dont like salmon?! I don't know if we can talk anymore courtney....", and she replied with "kk, bye" WTF!? then I replied with "Wow, courtney doesn't kid around eh?" "Don't worry your tastebuds will mature on day.."
The conversation ended soon after but I was happy with how it ended, although I still sense interest she seems to be playing harder now.. So i ended the texting convo sunday night, and its wednesday now and I haven't heard from her. To top things off her facebook says she just got a BF on valentines day, WTF is going on???
I don't meet to be conceited but her bf looks like a straightup loser, ugly, and according to her girlfriends (who I know) he is. Now we are both going to HB7's birthday party on friday night, there will be about 20 girls and 8 guys there, lucky me! I'll obviously scout out other girls but I'd put money on HB9 being the hottest chick there.
If her BF isn't at the party, what should I do, and if he is what should I? Should I game other girls and make her jealous? I know her interest level has gone down from what it was last week, but there is still a flame.
A couple notes,
I live at home still but my parents are away this weekend so Ill have the house to myself.
This girl is VERY DUMB, we were playing a drinking game and had to name countries, she said europe. And when someone said mexico, she stated "wait I thought we were naming countries" lol ..... hence all I want from her is a hookup/fuck buddy
I know she had fun the night we hooked up because in the moment she loved it, as well as the next day I saw her posting all over HB7's fb saying she had an awesome night and it was so fun etc.
Like I said she seems like the quiet/horny type, I have no doubt she'd cheat on her bf with me if the situation was right, all her friends dig me and I just started working as a paramedic, on my way to hopefully becoming a firefighter one day and it seems like all her friends are all over that but she doesnt give a shit?