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Author:  Silver8 [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm feeling bad.

After i started PUA and seduction stuff i feel like I'm a bad person. I don't treat girls very nice(and i miss that). My behavior changed towards male friends( i even get more respected ). Is this a normal feeling or there's something I'm doing wrong?

Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 10:11 pm ]
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Pickup doesn't mandate you treat girls like shit, so yeah if that's your new deal something's wrong. If you just treat girls like people, though, and think that's bad you are still falling for the cultural idea that women are somehow special and deserving of special SPAM. They are human beings just like men, not idols. If you're doing something wrong and its related to pickup, its more likely you are exaggerating or misinterpreting some aspects to the point where they are negative. Too much of anything can be bad.

Author:  Silver8 [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 10:14 pm ]
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Of course that i don't treat them like shit. It's just i don't do what they always want me to do and that sort of stuff. I don't know a girl that is a friend of mine that hates me.

Author:  Chai [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 10:37 pm ]
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Why do you feel like a bad person? There is nothing wrong with
learning techniques on how to attract women. No one has ever
taught you these skills so your applying yourself to learn
how to better yourself.

It's like girls and trying on make
up: No one taught them what the application process was so they
had to get someone else to show them how to
make themselves better on the outside in
order to feel better about themselves.
Its the same principle. What is
wrong with a guy learning to
attract women?

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Author:  Slip n Slide [ Thu Feb 16, 2012 1:48 am ]
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If you feel bad, it means there's some aspect of your "game" that's incongruent with who you are as a person. I'm talking about the best you, not the whiny, needy bitch you used to be. What you are experiencing is a stage on the journey to always putting your best foot forward, to being a positive, upbeat MAN.

If you don't have positivity and patience in your game, cultivate them. Go be a man.

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