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| Author: | Radar01 [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Made a mistake with HB 9 how to recover? |
Met a blonde girl the student bar 2 weeks ago. Chatted for a bit then let it go. Last week I was at the same bar I may do a full FR later but basically I was having an amazing night. Everything to do with pick-up seemed to click into place, after a few attempts of failing and then gradually getting better it just came together that night. Girls were all over me and I made out with a brunette for a while. Then towards the end of the night the blonde approached me (wasn't drunk but probably had a few drinks) " hey I know you were from somewhere". I was in an invincible state and played it pretty well. Chatted lots of negs kino etc. Took her to the dancefloor for a bit, then sat down on the chairs by the dancefloor. Spoke to her there intimately, massaged her. Then I think I said " shall we cut to the chase" (probably a bad line) she said she doesn't get with guys at bars that she doesn't know well. She then gestured with her hands and said "I only know you *that* well but maybe next week". I said that it didn't bother me leaned back. Then after we danced and it was then the end of the night. Forgot to #close that was a bit stupid. But then today I was sitting with three guy friends on a round table at uni, it was fairly busy. Out of nowhere she came by, she was asking people to vote on a certain policy. As she came near my table I saw her face move so she def recognised me. I just dismissed her , I blurted out " Oh yeah we've already voted" and she moved on. I haven't done anything that poor for a while, I knew her name and I didn't acknowledge her. This probably gives her the impression that I don't have the confidence to approach her during the day. So tomorrow I'm going to the same bar and she'll be there. Any advice on how to recover from the slip up and also how to close more effectively both tomorrow and in similar situations... |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:09 pm ] |
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Game other girls. You fucked up not when you didn't acknowledge her, but when she said she wanted to take her time and you went with it WITHOUT ESCALATING. Game other girls, there are thousands of 9s you can meet nearby. |
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| Author: | Radar01 [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 7:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Game other girls. You fucked up not when you didn't acknowledge her, but when she said she wanted to take her time and you went with it WITHOUT ESCALATING. Game other girls, there are thousands of 9s you can meet nearby.
Ok. What do you reckon would have been the best way to push forward in that sort of scenario without seeming needy? Also I'm going to that bar tomorrow because that's where my social circle hang out on wed nights. I will run into her at some point and I might as well do something. I have multiple targets but she's the hottest so I'm starting with her and then moving on to either new girls or other targets. Thx |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 9:18 pm ] |
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1. Oh dear lord she was barely interested. Don't just think about who's hottest, think about who's already most interested. 2. Negging is only for women who are arrogant and bombarded by male attention, you will never need "a lot of negs." Mocking a woman will very rarely accomplish anything good. 3. Don't verbalize that you wanna go fuck her, just take her hand and lead her out. Rather than looking for verbal agreement, just do things and if she accepts the advance consider that your compliance. 4. All you have to do is say hello. If she continues a conversation, then you got a mulligan. If she's short with you, then move on because your time is more efficiently spent on other women who will reciprocate quickly. |
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