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| Author: | tomhung [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 4:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Alpha females? |
Hi guys, i've found that there's a type of girl i am seeing a lot of recently: Alpha females - girls who are very independent, outgoing, strong willed, and attractive. My concern is that i am acting too beta around them, because they have a dominant personality. Can you give me some ways of altering this way of interacting with them? |
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| Author: | Entourages [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 5:17 am ] |
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Stop caring about how you should and need to act around them. You once heard the saying "be yourself" when you were younger, by your father or mother, or heard it on TV. But what does this mean? It means act the way you do around females you are not interested in and guy friends around girls you are attracted to. Females are continuously approached by males who feel the need to validate themselves, or make them portray that they are "alpha" but its bull shit if you aren't alpha. You hear the saying "nice guy" thrown around. Well the truth is, no body is that fucking nice. You are trying to be nice because you hope she will throw you a fucking bone and say "Geepers mr. your like super sweet can you take me out on a date." So when I say be yourself, I simply mean, stop acting differently, by saying you want to act Alpha you are going to try and over-sell yourself, create fallacies about yourself, and she will be able to sense this. Remember a female is a human being, she is not a move in a giant game of chess you have to take out. Talk to her as if she is a person, dont just tell her everything about you, make her tell you stuff about her. I went out last night, and I didnt realize it until today really and I am proud of myself for it, but I did not tell a girl anything about me unless she specifically asked and was actually interested (showed IOI). I made her tell me about her dreams/goals, what she is doing, and other random shit about her. Some set even told me they are such good friends that they had a kid 3 days apart and it wasn't planned. I was like oh fuck no TMI and just got up hahaha. Point is I listen to females and have a conversation with them as if they were my mates, sure I dont talk about COD or the tits on the girl sitting next to me, but I talk to them like I talk to that one friend of yours that you have a legit conversation with about how the earth is 5b years old, and how religion was created as a guideline to life. I still need practice with this obviously, everyone does, but you should make it a goal to not view any female as a prize or a goal/target. Rather an individual you want to get to know, and if she actually meets your standards on multiple levels you will take her away. |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 6:53 am ] |
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Girls like that need very alpha guys to be with them. |
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