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"I could tell"

Subtlety of a neg + playful = vagina tingles

On a side note, I don't think the OP is overanalyzing anything. He's just trying to expose himself to different ideas for retorts/ comebacks to develop more acumen himself. There's nothing wrong with that, before most people learn to open naturally with whatever comes to their mind, they work off of canned routines and set-ups.

But it IS true that you shouldn't be too obsessed with comebacks or retorts. The Alpha Male is active, not REactive.

And yes, it's a compliance shit test. There are no girls that do not "play games." The only time she's being "real" when saying this is if her self-esteem is absolutely knee deep in elephant shit, like DEEP DEEP in African Bull Elephant diarrhea; in which case you shouldn't worry about a comeback, just avoid her.

When you're talking about "playing games," you're using that term in a highly socialized way.

"Stop playing games, just tell her how you feel."

"Stop playing games, just ask your ex to give you another chance."

"Girls don't like guys that play games"

The phrase has become so branded with notions of emasculation that guys are taught to FEEL SHAME for being masculine.

"Stop playing games, just open up to your girlfriend. Man up and face your emotions"

The interpretation has been twisted to get men to rationalize whining about their insecurities and refusing to consciously apply Game when it could help them the most. We need to stay away from them. Any phrase like

"Just be yourself"
"Don't play games"
"Don't be a jerk"

is a label syndicated with the feminine imperative. Guys use it on this forum all the time, not aware of how damaging it can be. When you tell a guy who plays World of Warcraft all day "Just be yourself," do you expect him to stop playing world of warcraft? Just being himself is what got him to this sad pathetic state. When you tell a guy "this girl is real, she doesn't play games" do you expect him to retain his abundance mentality after thinking FOR THE FIRST TIME, HE HAS FINALLY FOUND A GIRL WHO DOESN'T PLAY GAMES? I understand they are used with positive intentions, to stop us from intellectually masturbating, but we should also consider the barrel end of their negative repercussions.

Author:	xDerailx [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 2:08 am ]
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When finding out about a woman and she responds with "Well, im actually a boring person." (referring to herself) Or any other sort of response. What is a good comeback or response for that? I'm interested in hearing some ideas to field test. I will usually respond with.... "Well, your first impression kind of sucked but I am curious about you." Please post thoughts, responses, comments Thank

Author:	DJ_Z [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 2:58 am ]
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A woman who says something like that either really believes she sucks as a person, or the more likely option, or she is fishing for compliments. You don't always need a snappy comeback to everything a woman says. If you just say "okay" and continue to talk to her, you handle either scenario. If she has low selfesteem, you're just saying she's cool won't matter. Just continuing the conversation helps. And if she's an attention whore, you just chat like its nothing, the moment you suck up to her, hell even if you try to be clever, you'll be like every other guy.

Author:	Danage [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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it's qualification so you can either play to it or not. In your response you played to it, my response because i'm kind of a prick is 'Yeah and I like Sister Act, the first one though. Does that make me sound odd?' just ignore it kind of. It works for me, like you're not biting on the fishing line they're casting.

Author:	Defy [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:31 pm ]
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Quote: When finding out about a woman and she responds with "Well, im actually a boring person." (referring to herself) Or any other sort of response. What is a good comeback or response for that? I'm interested in hearing some ideas to field test. I will usually respond with.... "Well, your first impression kind of sucked but I am curious about you." Please post thoughts, responses, comments Thank Here is a good comeback "Oh yeah? Well, the jerk store called, and they're running outta you." Seriously man, you are overthinking this. Comeback is a reacting to something. At best, you can be percieved as funny.

Author:	cunning_stunt [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:27 pm ]
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I would say 'the fact that you are boring is not the problem; the fact that you remind me of Whitney Houston taking a bath -is'. Then I would sip my drink look the other way and say 'I wander how many bricks it took to make that wall'... = random, quite funny, pokes fun at her, pokes fun at yourself for being boring for a sec, avoids giving her answer if she is fishing, shows confidence, naughty boy type of answer.

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Author:	AmazingArt [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:46 pm ]
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You should use that to flirt with her. For example she says: SHe: "Well, im actually a boring person." You: Your an extremely boring person! Did you bring me a pillow to sleep while u talk. ( Make sure to have a smirk or a smile on your face when you say it) Usually the girl will laugh. Your accomplishing 3 things here 1) Passing her shit test or her trying to get a compliment from you 2) You're negging her thus raising attraction 3) being funny and flirting creates attraction.

Author:	Morpheo [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:21 am ]
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This is a great question that I'd love to have a good retort for. I've had a girl say this to me. It's not necessarily a shit test. Some girls are just real. Not all of them will play games with you. This retort needs to be silly, to get them into a flirty mood. The pillow retort is the best one so far. Let's come up with more.

Author:	AmazingArt [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:31 am ]
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Well the point is not having lines I can give you many of them but you have to do it naturally without me having having to have to tell you. Well just for the fun of it I'll give you another one. SHe: "Well, im actually a boring person." You: Your an extremely boring person! Next time I can't fall asleep I'll definitely call you( Make sure to have a smirk or a smile on your face when you say it)

Author:	v00owen [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:53 am ]
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Would it be bad to counter act her qualification by striking it head on with a "Really.. why's that?" smirk You would be putting her in the spot for trying to get a compliment out of you, and it would make her open up or shut up trying to get one past you

Author:	Hakuna [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 12:54 am ]
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"I could tell" Subtlety of a neg + playful = vagina tingles On a side note, I don't think the OP is overanalyzing anything. He's just trying to expose himself to different ideas for retorts/ comebacks to develop more acumen himself. There's nothing wrong with that, before most people learn to open naturally with whatever comes to their mind, they work off of canned routines and set-ups. But it IS true that you shouldn't be too obsessed with comebacks or retorts. The Alpha Male is active, not REactive. And yes, it's a compliance shit test. There are no girls that do not "play games." The only time she's being "real" when saying this is if her self-esteem is absolutely knee deep in elephant shit, like DEEP DEEP in African Bull Elephant diarrhea; in which case you shouldn't worry about a comeback, just avoid her. When you're talking about "playing games," you're using that term in a highly socialized way. "Stop playing games, just tell her how you feel." "Stop playing games, just ask your ex to give you another chance." "Girls don't like guys that play games" The phrase has become so branded with notions of emasculation that guys are taught to FEEL SHAME for being masculine. "Stop playing games, just open up to your girlfriend. Man up and face your emotions" The interpretation has been twisted to get men to rationalize whining about their insecurities and refusing to consciously apply Game when it could help them the most. We need to stay away from them. Any phrase like "Just be yourself" "Don't play games" "Don't be a jerk" is a label syndicated with the feminine imperative. Guys use it on this forum all the time, not aware of how damaging it can be. When you tell a guy who plays World of Warcraft all day "Just be yourself," do you expect him to stop playing world of warcraft? Just being himself is what got him to this sad pathetic state. When you tell a guy "this girl is real, she doesn't play games" do you expect him to retain his abundance mentality after thinking FOR THE FIRST TIME, HE HAS FINALLY FOUND A GIRL WHO DOESN'T PLAY GAMES? I understand they are used with positive intentions, to stop us from intellectually masturbating, but we should also consider the barrel end of their negative repercussions.

Author:	pumpington [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 10:01 am ]
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''Oh, you're boring?, well I don't really have a thing for boring girls, you seemed interesting, guess if you can't tell me something interesting about yourself, we should stop talking'' ''I see, what kind of boring stuff do you do on the regular that makes you so boring?'' Quote: "I could tell" Subtlety of a neg + playful = vagina tingles On a side note, I don't think the OP is overanalyzing anything. He's just trying to expose himself to different ideas for retorts/ comebacks to develop more acumen himself. There's nothing wrong with that, before most people learn to open naturally with whatever comes to their mind, they work off of canned routines and set-ups. But it IS true that you shouldn't be too obsessed with comebacks or retorts. The Alpha Male is active, not REactive. And yes, it's a compliance shit test. There are no girls that do not "play games." The only time she's being "real" when saying this is if her self-esteem is absolutely knee deep in elephant shit, like DEEP DEEP in African Bull Elephant diarrhea; in which case you shouldn't worry about a comeback, just avoid her. When you're talking about "playing games," you're using that term in a highly socialized way. "Stop playing games, just tell her how you feel." "Stop playing games, just ask your ex to give you another chance." "Girls don't like guys that play games" The phrase has become so branded with notions of emasculation that guys are taught to FEEL SHAME for being masculine. "Stop playing games, just open up to your girlfriend. Man up and face your emotions" The interpretation has been twisted to get men to rationalize whining about their insecurities and refusing to consciously apply Game when it could help them the most. We need to stay away from them. Any phrase like "Just be yourself" "Don't play games" "Don't be a jerk" is a label syndicated with the feminine imperative. Guys use it on this forum all the time, not aware of how damaging it can be. When you tell a guy who plays World of Warcraft all day "Just be yourself," do you expect him to stop playing world of warcraft? Just being himself is what got him to this sad pathetic state. When you tell a guy "this girl is real, she doesn't play games" do you expect him to retain his abundance mentality after thinking FOR THE FIRST TIME, HE HAS FINALLY FOUND A GIRL WHO DOESN'T PLAY GAMES? I understand they are used with positive intentions, to stop us from intellectually masturbating, but we should also consider the barrel end of their negative repercussions. there is a difference between just saying and doing anything and sucking shit, and expressing yourself and your intent congruently without filter, being needy supplicating and being reactive, has nothing to do with expressing your true intent and ''being yourself'', that is just saying and doing what is most comfortable for you, while not actually acting through your own intentions without a need for approval these terms are totally sufficent because they are in actuallity the answer, but you can not actually be your true self without first developing confidence and training yourself to not seek external validation and acceptance, the day you don't need approval, and can act through your own intent, is the day you become a man, being yourself is actually great advice, the problem is, that advice is often totally mis-understood, you have to know who you are and what you want, and be able to confidently express your intent, if you don't know who you are, you can not be yourself, just someone you think others want you to be

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