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Author:  Log!c [ Sun Feb 12, 2012 11:48 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you deal with Attention Whores?

To clarify, an Attention Whore in this context is a woman that constantly seeks male attention and validation and thrives from it. A woman that can't keep her attention focused on one guy, but rather many different guys for very short periods of time. Almost like a "female player". A tease. Very flirtatious and open.

I've been dealing with one. HB8. I've gamed her and even managed to keep her attention set exclusively on me twice for long periods of time, despite the fact the she was still texting another boy (1.5+ hrs each). It doesn't sound like a great feat, but it was for me. Occasionally, she'll initiate hanging out with me when we're at school, other times just for a moment. This girl really can't sit still. She's attractive and always has guys persuing her. I'm guessing she does it just because she knows that she can get away with it.

This girl has given me IOI's, SOI's, and even qualified herself to me. Kino went great, interactions were playful, I established myself as a prize and held the frame. I know that she's interested in me more than the others, or was during those times, but I can't help but to feel like this is a lost cause. I feel as though it amounts to nothing and that I'm on the same page as the others. She's always playing games and over exaggerates her excitement.
I.E. - Guy she knows walks into the room, she shrieks with excitement, runs over to them and hugs them. This has happened about a thousand times since I've known this girl. She'll come and open me, starting a conversation, and as I'm mid-way through saying something, leave and do the same exact thing to the next guy near-by, and so on. I'd ignored her and cut contact down for about a week or two, she came back to me and asked me if I would act right now, something along those lines. I, of course, didn't fall into her trap. ( This actually started off as a joke where I'd pretend she wasn't there, but it turned out she cared and didn't like me doing that. )

She seems to be very "present", and "in-the-moment", nothing else matters. It's a short attention span. Acted out or legitimate, I do not know. My question is, how do you get in with an Attention Whore? Is it even a possibility with this girl?

Author:  papichulo310 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 12:18 am ]
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same way most of us deal with Fuze, ignore them.

Author:  Hakuna [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 1:07 am ]
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Obviously do not reserve any intentions of getting caught up in a relationship with this girl. Don't let Oneitis set in, this girl is best for a pump and dump and nothing more. The only time I get into relationships with girls like these is for practice, as although they are terrible girlfriends, they keep your game in tip-top condition by forcing you to maintain state control and to deal with a continuous stream of shit tests.

Amused mastery works with girls a notch down, but for a girl THIS BENT on fucking up your frame control, only a complete balls out cock snuffing method will work. I've dealt with several like the one you described above, and this method gives them tingles like vagina tectonics.

So when she opens up another guy... walk away with utter spontaneity. No "bye" or "hey I'll be back in a second," nothing of that sort. Literally just walk away and start talking to another girl

In the middle of her talking, pick up a call from another girl and stay immersed in the ensuing a conversation.

Neg in her in these three ways:
(a) Say no. Not in the playful teasing sort of way, just a disciplined "no." She says "walk me to class?" reply with "no" and walk away.
(b) Call other girls pretty / smart / fun around her, and then act a bit more interested in them.
(c) Complete ignorance.

The same day you hook up with her, let her see you hook up with someone else.

Cancel on a date with her and go on a date with some other girl.

I know it sounds harsh, but the cunt must obey the cock. And trust me on this, the more promiscuous and feminine a girl is, the more masculine and utterly dominant you must be. And not dominant in the "overt" desperate way, but in the subtlest Alpha-fucking-jedi-game way. You need to be pre-selected out the ass, you MUST have at least one or two other girls liking you concurrently.

And remember that all of this must flow naturally, you can't make it seem like you're consciously doing any of it.

Author:  Log!c [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 4:22 am ]
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Quote:
Obviously do not reserve any intentions of getting caught up in a relationship with this girl. Don't let Oneitis set in, this girl is best for a pump and dump and nothing more. The only time I get into relationships with girls like these is for practice, as although they are terrible girlfriends, they keep your game in tip-top condition by forcing you to maintain state control and to deal with a continuous stream of shit tests.

Absolutely not. She's cool when she's not annoying, but I've made that mistake years ago and know now never to do it again. They constantly play games, as you said.
Quote:
Amused mastery works with girls a notch down, but for a girl THIS BENT on fucking up your frame control, only a complete balls out cock snuffing method will work. I've dealt with several like the one you described above, and this method gives them tingles like vagina tectonics.

So when she opens up another guy... walk away with utter spontaneity. No "bye" or "hey I'll be back in a second," nothing of that sort. Literally just walk away and start talking to another girl

In the middle of her talking, pick up a call from another girl and stay immersed in the ensuing a conversation.

Neg in her in these three ways:
(a) Say no. Not in the playful teasing sort of way, just a disciplined "no." She says "walk me to class?" reply with "no" and walk away.
(b) Call other girls pretty / smart / fun around her, and then act a bit more interested in them.
(c) Complete ignorance.

The same day you hook up with her, let her see you hook up with someone else.

Cancel on a date with her and go on a date with some other girl.

I know it sounds harsh, but the cunt must obey the cock. And trust me on this, the more promiscuous and feminine a girl is, the more masculine and utterly dominant you must be. And not dominant in the "overt" desperate way, but in the subtlest Alpha-fucking-jedi-game way. You need to be pre-selected out the ass, you MUST have at least one or two other girls liking you concurrently.

And remember that all of this must flow naturally, you can't make it seem like you're consciously doing any of it.
Thanks. Your plan sounds great except the following:
How are you supposed to keep her around you when you're constantly snubbing her down?
And cancelling on her then going with another girl seems to me like suicide.
In recent times, I've noticed that the Attention Whore type is growing in popularity.
Despite my skepticisms, I'm going to use your advice and update this with my results.

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