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Author:  tonygreen [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 3:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Need advice to help escalate and close
So I was out last weekend and opened a set with 6 girls, the mistake I think I made is I didn't close... I got numbers for 3 girls throughout the night but the one I am really interested in has been playing hard to get, when I tried for her number she said find me on FB. lol

So here is our FB conversation this week...

ME: ApriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiL, I found you! Getting your number would have made things much easier. :)

HER:
lol

ME:
Lol is not your number!

HER:
I hate men right now Tony lol

ME:
I hate women right now too, we should talk about it more over dinner sometime. :D

ME:
You better not give me your number after I win this powerball! :D (powerball is our lottery lol)

HER: hell yea!! we get married lol

ME:
Good plan, lets talk about the divorce and custody of the kids over dinner? :)

HER: (just now)
you are very funny lol

What should I reply next??


Need help closing. We danced quite a bit and I should have been more on my game and closed that night but I made a rookie mistake and got a little too bubbly and I was all over talkign to a million girls. :/
Author:  FCgame [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:27 pm ]
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Don't text man, seriously I'm so tired of this texting shit. Be a man and call her.
About closing, it's tomething that you shouldn't think about. Don't go out with the idea of closing or making out with her or having sex with her, just go out and have fun.
Once you are relaxed and enjoying the moment you will start seing results, you won't be thinking she just touched my arm I should escalate... etc do you know what I mean?
Here you have some tips to improve your nightgame
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Su7ok6d ... 3ol_I_0AKp
Author:  tonygreen [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:07 pm ]
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Thanks for the reply man, I would love to call her I am great on the phone, I hate text, and FB, and email too, she is reluctant to give me the number or holding out. I don't know if she is making me work for it or what, I think there is interest though she seems playful in her replies. The number is proving difficult. lol

She showed alot of interest when we were out.
Author:  tonygreen [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:08 pm ]
Post subject: 
Maybe she is holding out because I was all over getting other numbers all night last weekend. Is this a lost cause?

Totally unsure what to reply as our conversation stands now.
Author:  AdamThomas [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 6:27 pm ]
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She gave you her Facebook as a polite rejection, she might think you're a nice guy but I don't think she's interested in you sexually. I think you should move on.
Author:  Mies [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 7:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advice to help escalate and close
Quote:
ME: ApriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiL
To be honest... you lost right there. Over enthusiasm. Clown behavior. Always keep your pokerface, even when your heart is about to burst with excitement.

You also don't ask her out to dinner (trying to close) within 30 seconds of your conversation. You did a nice save saying we should discuss custody papers (a very clever neg), but now you have to keep your cool.

Next reply: "April our messy divorce / the welfare of our children is no laughing matter".

Congratulations, you are now in control of the conversation.
Author:  pumpington [ Tue Feb 14, 2012 10:27 am ]
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why are you wasting time on this, this girl obviously isn't into you,

she rejected you from a phone number...
a phone number,
A PHONE NUMBER!!

move on, this is the biggest giant waste of time, she won't even give you compliance at the level of having her contact info, phone numbers don't mean shit,

go talk to alot more women, if one girl who doesn't even like you is somehow a big deal and is your primary focus it is obvious you have to improve the rate at which you meet girls

go find a girl who not only gives you her number, but calls you, and start trying to actually show intent and kiss/touch girls, sooner rather then later

instead of getting at you want something from them, try to always be holding true to you are trying to give them something,

you're not trying to get her number, you want to take her out and give her fun time

you're not trying to get her to suck your dick, you want to show her this awesome movie at your house

if she is not cool with you bringing value and turns down your offers, (iod), then the correct coarse of action is not MORE ATTENTION, and TRYING HARDER, the right thing to do, is go find another girl, who is up for it, and improve yourself, stop giving girls so much validation and attention when they don't deserve it, what has this girl done for you besides being cold and non-compliant?
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