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Author:  Entourages [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:50 pm ]
Post subject:  i have a problem... mentally!
I have been gaming this HB8/9 and its been difficult, but I finally got her. I can tell she is into me, she now rubs my hair, hits me, grabs my hand, everything that shows IOI, but I am not as attracted to her anymore, she became like a HB6/7 not looks, just I dont care anymore.

Why does this happen to me, legit the hunt is better than the catch every time. When I get things I dont want.

I gotta run somewhere so I will finish this post later or edit it. I would like some quick responses on what I should do.
Author:  OliverKing [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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Hey, Raphael.

The point is that you have been obsessed with this girl for a while and I understand that it takes lots of time and energy to game a high quality girl. So us a result you just become exhausted.

Ask yourself: Is she really worth it? Do I want to be with a girl who drains my energy?

If both answers are NO, just move on. There are tons of beautiful women in this world. Don't be excited about her looks. You are a man of your own reality and if she wants to be part of your world, she has to put some work.

Hope it helps,
OliverKing.
Author:  Entourages [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:52 pm ]
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Yea you are probably right haha. I will close her though for experience. Then move on.
Author:  Breaking Bad [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 10:29 am ]
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did you fuck her?
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 2:50 pm ]
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If you've sleep with her that'll explain everything.

Girls will usually go from a 9 to a 3 after I'm done.. If the attraction was only physically.
Author:  Entourages [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 5:03 pm ]
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But does this mean I am like a fucked up person? Like am I really just that fucked up?
Author:  Defy [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 6:35 pm ]
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But does this mean I am like a fucked up person? Like am I really just that fucked up?
no. there is a dark side to this craft that gets to most of us. think about it. you start from being a loser (more or less), and you would give anything to have a girl so you could enjoy (with) her. then you find out about pua and at first you see it as a MEANS to get the girl. and somewhere in the way pua becomes the GOAL.
Author:  Entourages [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 8:46 pm ]
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No I have always been like this since I was 12... seriously, I actually had to go to some religious school to tame myself. Its the main reason I dont want to get to good at this, maybe my soul is trying to quench my ego or some shit. But yea... what ever I guess I will just live life and take shit as it comes.
Author:  papichulo310 [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 8:57 pm ]
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When we finally get what we want, often we think to ourselves "why did it come so easy?", "what's wrong with this girl for her to be so hot and all into me?"....

You then begin to look for flaws, or any perceptible blemishes in her whether it be in her personality, her physical appearance or both. This explains the common phenomenon that once you get the girl, you no longer find yourself as attracted to her.


If she were to pull away all of a sudden, chances are your attraction level toward her would increase. I think Mystery referred to in his book as Cat String Theory.
Author:  papichulo310 [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 8:59 pm ]
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If you've sleep with her that'll explain everything.

Girls will usually go from a 9 to a 3 after I'm done.. If the attraction was only physically.
Especially if they've got BO, in which case they go straight to bottom of the barrel.
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 10, 2012 8:59 pm ]
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Yea dude, just know that being a pua can lead you down a dark road.. I've noticed that the best puas and players quit what they are doing after a while.. I have a uncle thats sworn to celibacy for life because of how bad of a player he was when he was younger. He is married now and won't even sleep with his wife..

Also the guy that developed the shock and awe technique has deleted every post and article he has ever written from the internet.. I don't know why this happens because I haven't been they're but if I keep at this rate I will surely find out.
Author:  Entourages [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 12:07 am ]
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I think I know why? You get to a point where you feel you are just manipulating people and scenario's to your liking, and then you grow mental with the fact that everything around you is fake, because as much as you claim it is the true you, the real you would have never done "Action B" rather "Action A" or if in reality you would do "Action B" it would be done differently, maybe that is why, or why I think.

I just hope that this wont happen to like "the one."
Author:  Breaking Bad [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 2:55 am ]
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I think I know why? You get to a point where you feel you are just manipulating people and scenario's to your liking, and then you grow mental with the fact that everything around you is fake, because as much as you claim it is the true you, the real you would have never done "Action B" rather "Action A" or if in reality you would do "Action B" it would be done differently, maybe that is why, or why I think.

I just hope that this wont happen to like "the one."
wow I couldve told you this.

do what YOU would do. Cut all the fake shit. cut the crap. be honest with yourself. Thats the only way YOU will improve.

I was a little mystery method kid about 3-4 years ago... and then went through a bit of an emotional breakdown. LOL. Its funny watching people on the forums the same thing is happening to them. its strange... Theyl think they have the answers to everything and a great understanding of it all and can 'manipulate people and scenarios' but how ridiculous does that sound. When truth is, no one does. its when you accept you know nothing, maybe have a bit of a breakdown. lol. but you'll get to a eureka moment because of it, and theres no turning back.

You'll end up back where you already were all along. You do a complete 360 and land back where you were already. But on doing this, youve realised a lot with the complete revolution. Just be yourself, theres no other way to go about it.

I came out from it as myself, and never been happier!
Author:  Entourages [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 3:10 am ]
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Breakingbad I dont want to be a dick at all, sorry I could just be tired from medication but I didnt understand your point. I just couldnt put the pieces together.

Maybe it's my fault. I was trying to say I have had this issue since I was like 12, I wasn't that shy guy who hasnt gotten a girl until he found PUA. But everytime I am with a girl I get bored, and its pretty fucked up. I dont know, I just wanted to see what other people say. I wanted to know if it is normal. I only really care, cause one day I want to get married and have kids and that whole life-challenge. I dont even know what to say. I guess i just want to hear, stfu it will be okay, no idea.

Anyways the post you quoted was why I think people go mental from PUA. I dont think I will get there (or hope not too). Damn are my meds strong haha, pneumonia is not fun.
Author:  Breaking Bad [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 4:47 am ]
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Breakingbad I dont want to be a dick at all, sorry I could just be tired from medication but I didnt understand your point. I just couldnt put the pieces together.

Maybe it's my fault. I was trying to say I have had this issue since I was like 12, I wasn't that shy guy who hasnt gotten a girl until he found PUA. But everytime I am with a girl I get bored, and its pretty fucked up. I dont know, I just wanted to see what other people say. I wanted to know if it is normal. I only really care, cause one day I want to get married and have kids and that whole life-challenge. I dont even know what to say. I guess i just want to hear, stfu it will be okay, no idea.

Anyways the post you quoted was why I think people go mental from PUA. I dont think I will get there (or hope not too). Damn are my meds strong haha, pneumonia is not fun.
Well did you have sex with her I asked?

I often get over girls too once I sleep with them...

When you find a girl you like, dont rush into sex. get to know her a bit and you will start to like her. I did that with my current girl and Im head over heels... even after shes heels over head ;)
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