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| Author: | yeeaabuddy [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 5:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is it harder to hit on girls at college campus? |
I go to a community college in a somewhat small town. There's probably about 10,000 people that go there and I'm afraid that if I start approaching girls on campus that they will remember me. I rarely see them again but I'm so afraid that they will that I just won't do it. Has anyone else been had success at college campuses? If so is it harder or easier then the streets? |
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| Author: | DEEFORT [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 5:57 am ] |
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This is the wrong place to be asking for serious college advice. There are general rules to gaming, but you have to know how to apply it properly depending on the situation. For the most part, college game = inner game. Get your confidence up and you won't need much help. The biggest confidence boost is to abstain from masturbation. There's this HB10 in my class and I've been talking to her since day 1. I basically applied what I've learned and got her number today. She started giving me her number before I even got my phone out. I know what you're thinking and I know what kind of person you are. You're nervous. You got bitch butterflies. You think there's some secret pick up line that will instantly get you that girl. There isn't... It comes with practice, experience, and more importantly, APPLYING. If you aren't confident, you will fuck up. I don't mean be pretentious and tell yourself that you are confident. You actually have to feel confident... EDIT: Got this from another thread about inner game and it's pretty much how I've become. Quote: id say the basics of inner game are
1) adopt a playful and learning and screening frame of mind 2) be/get happy with yourself and your life setup - 3) do things you enjoy! an interesting person has interests and stories! 4) enjoy meeting new people - in a playful relaxed way 5) enjoy being around, meeting and being sexual with women |
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| Author: | cg319 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it harder to hit on girls at college campus? |
Quote: I go to a community college in a somewhat small town. There's probably about 10,000 people that go there and I'm afraid that if I start approaching girls on campus that they will remember me. I rarely see them again but I'm so afraid that they will that I just won't do it. Has anyone else been had success at college campuses? If so is it harder or easier then the streets?
It's not just college.. let me give you some advice coming from someone who lives in a town of 10,000 people. It sucks.. believe me.. There are only a couple of bars that people go to and a packed night for our most popular bar is like.. 20-30 people. The people who go there every single night are the people who grew up together and have their weird little small town cliche and if you didn't grow up in high school with them, they will find any tiny little flaw you have and use it as an excuse to hate you. Think about this for a second.. let's say you do pick a girl up from your local bar/pub or what ever.. yes you're going to see her again, unless you play World Of Warcraft and never leave your house. A town of 10,000 if one of those towns that when you go out to the grocery or the bar.. chances are you're going to see the same people over and over again. With the bar scene in my town.. it's the exact same people every single night and weekend.. there's never any "out of town" sets or girls by themselves. Strangers I found were usually friends with that small town cliche. Can you break into the little small town group that "runs the bar/college/pub"? Sure.. but even if you do.. god forbid you ever hurt the girl or break up with her because now you're enemy #1 for the rest of your and their lives. My advice: Hit on girls at the nearest town/college of 50,000+ people.. MUCH MUCH MUCH less white trash drama there and you'll actually see strangers. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:35 am ] |
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Who cares what people think of you? Your worrying too much and you will always find an excuse to approach with that type of thinking.. Do you honestly think your that important for people to want to remember every little action you take? There are 10,000 other people to help divide they're attention.. I went to a community college with around 10,000 people and I approached all the time. I even had a girlfriend that was on the same campus and she never found out.. 10,000 people is a lot dude. |
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