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| Author: | johndoe12345 [ Wed Feb 08, 2012 12:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to handle conflict with this woman. Need help ASAP. |
I met her at an overnight inventory project I'm on right now. She's sexy. The one girl every guy wants there. She's a position above me for this project. Well, we hit it off the first two days. I ask her for her number. She gives it to me. I flirt with her in text, she flirts back and agrees to meet me at a hibachi grill on a date soon. Well, today, apparently her bosses thought we weren't being productive enough, so they harped at her and she in turn got upset and started acting like a bitch, started being real bossy and rude. I sent her a text saying she was being really grumpy since she had her phone on her. I know she saw it, but didn't respond. Later, after we all left, I sent another asking what her deal was. Thats when she told me her bosses were complaining about us, so I sent her this: ” I didn't know. I'm sorry. I don't agree that I was always standing around myself, but please, in the future, take me to the side and talk to me if something is wrong so I can help you. Don't do the whole ”go do this, thank you” and then act upset. There's no need for it. It just makes it seem like youre trying to push people around and you're much prettier when you smile anyway.” Got no response, but she may be in bed. I see her again tomorrow. Was my text style good? How should I handle seeing her? Should I just give up on her at this point? |
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| Author: | johndoe12345 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:05 am ] |
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I sent her a text today saying I had a dream that we were all pirates last night, but no response. I'm just deleting her number. She may be hot, but she's a train wreck when it comes to communication. I can do better. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to handle conflict with this woman. Need help ASAP. |
Quote:
Should have sent:
Notice where I cut it.
” I didn't know. I'm sorry. I don't agree that I was always standing around myself, but please, in the future, take me to the side and talk to me if something is wrong so I can help you." |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:33 am ] |
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Bravo good job that's what a real man does says next and moves on. I have to make a point however. When it comes to work girls may act much more different than they do in real life. That's why pickup at work can lethal. |
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| Author: | johndoe12345 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:15 am ] |
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Slip n Slide- Yeah, im not too good at texting. Good call. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:22 am ] |
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Quote: Slip n Slide-
There was no reason to apologize, you guys were both equally at fault.. Well actually she is more at fault because she is the boss.Yeah, im not too good at texting. Good call. You wimped out on this one and then over texted her.. Your going to have to let this one go.. And I hope this shows you how awkward it can be talking to someone from work. |
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| Author: | johndoe12345 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 1:59 pm ] |
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Yeah, I may. She was a complete bitch to me last night when we worked together again. See, one thing about us was that we bickered a lot, but in a playful, teasing way at first. Now, she follows me around all day, ignores almost everyone but me, is constantly getting on me, but I keep smarting off to her when she tells me to do something or nags me alot and then she smiles and she keeps coming back for more. She'll come around and if she sees me just talking for two seconds she'll say something like ” you are so unproductive. Get to work!” And in a very snotty way, but then I'll say something like, ” you're such a stalker. You always keep tabs on me.” this went on all night. Most people wouldve told her off, but I just kept busting her balls, because I know im a hard worker. Its like a constant battle of wits with her. I told her im going to call her friday one time to get her schedule for next week so we can go on a date and she told she works from 9-5. So I take it she wanted me to know when she was available. I honestly think she likes arguing. Oh, and she's really not a boss per say, more like a temporary team lead. She's barely above me and in two days the project will be over nd we'll never work together again. I also never brought up that she didnt respond to my texts by the way. Just fyi. |
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| Author: | johndoe12345 [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 2:05 pm ] |
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Amazing art- Good point. I really couldn't endure her being the same outside work, except just for the sake of seeing how long I could last. It'd be a monumental challenge. She loves arguing! |
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| Author: | OliverKing [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 3:53 pm ] |
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She owns you and you respond normally to this. Women are emotional creatures. It's your job as a man to ignore her when she starts arguing. Simply, you don't have time and energy to listen her when she complains. You are a busy man! She will never respond to you with a logic, she will respond to you with emotions. There is only one way to handle this, ignore it. Never apologize to her for being a man. It's your responsibility to be dominant and go for what you want and there is no point of saying"sorry". Lots of love, OliverKing. |
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