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Author:  guruman [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 4:53 am ]
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Iv been gaming this girl for a minute, we usually end up talking every day. She didn't want to come out with me this weekend, so we didn't talk much. Then yesterday I just didn't talk to her at all, was busy. She then texted me first thing this morning when she got up at like 7am and sent me this super long message telling me about her weekend and saying she hopes mine was good and shit. It made me feel like she just wanted to talk to me.. I didn't respond at all today, still haven't said anything.. I'm not mad and even if I was I wouldn't let her know, but I think it's whack that she declined my invites to go dance this weekend after fishing for them for weeks, but she had time to go do a bunch of other stuff. I feel like she just wants a text buddy, she enjoys the attention but doesn't want to hang out. Why would she just text me in the morning telling me all about her weekend when I had been tryin to hang out with her and she knows it, but was too busy for me..
Author:  hardkink [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:43 am ]
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Sounds like you got it all figured out already. And you seem to be playing the right cards.

Only second reason I could think of is she already had plans before you asked. Either way she felt she needed add insult to injury.

I'd keep up the freeze till tomorrow then act as if nothing happened. Don't acknowledge her weekend text.
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:55 am ]
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You've already figured it out bro.. So people use other people to get an energy charge because they don't know how to draw the energy from with in... Do you ever get bored and just text someone you used to talk to for the hell of it? We've all done it. And that is because at that moment we desire attention; and as long as the person is giving, we'll keep taking it. Now lets say they told you they were onto and they won't be giving you the attention anymore unless it's reciprocated. They'll either find someone new to get that attention from or give you what you want in exchange for the attention.. Thats what you must do my friend. I hope its clear enough, give it some thought and figure it out.

I also don't think its a good idea for you to repress your emotions from any girl.. Now im not saying start pouring your heart and expressing your "love" but when its coming from an honest centered place it always brings you closer to the person.. Even anger or frustration, take a deep breath and express it to the person causing it with a clear mind. They'll respect you for it and adapt or get lost.
Author:  guruman [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:46 pm ]
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Thanks guys that's what I thought too. I feel like calling her out on it won't accomplish anything.. She clearly had time to do something this weekend, I can't force her to want to spend her time with me and whining about it doesn't seem like it would help.
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 4:50 pm ]
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Thanks guys that's what I thought too. I feel like calling her out on it won't accomplish anything.. She clearly had time to do something this weekend, I can't force her to want to spend her time with me and whining about it doesn't seem like it would help.
If you out eating at a restaurant and your waiter is being extremely rude, is it whining to let him know that your not going to accept his behavior? And that if he continues, there will be consequences?
Author:  guruman [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:10 pm ]
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Thanks guys that's what I thought too. I feel like calling her out on it won't accomplish anything.. She clearly had time to do something this weekend, I can't force her to want to spend her time with me and whining about it doesn't seem like it would help.
If you out eating at a restaurant and your waiter is being extremely rude, is it whining to let him know that your not going to accept his behavior? And that if he continues, there will be consequences?
Of course not, I don't find her behavior unacceptable though. We aren't involved whatsoever- she has no obligations to me at all. If she'd rather go out with other people that's fine with me, I have plenty of other women and friends to fill the void. Her behavior just isn't up to my standards and expectations, which will ultimately lead to her getting next'd probably sooner rather then later.. But I see nothing to gain from warning her that it's coming if she doesn't 'shape up'. I'm not out to change anybody, I accept all the women in my social circle for who they are. If I end up finding us not compatible then that's her loss, as well as her responsibility to start trying harder if she wants me in her life. I am not involved with her nearly enough for me to want to show her that I would care either way, imo
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