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| Author: | TygaNasty [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Low Energy > High Energy ? |
For me at least. IDK why but when I'm high energy, things tend to fuck up. The girl thinks I"m annoying or some shit. Or she might say some slick shit like "No wonder you're single.... just kidding" That's no shit test. A shit test is like "Are you a player?" I hardly get any IOI's when I'm high energy too. Now when I'm low energy, it's a different story. It feels sexy. Unlike high energy, it is much easier to move in for the kiss. I get IOI's until tomorrow. I experimented on the same girl just to test it out... here's the results. High Energy = I'm IOI'ing her and she's not giving as many IOI's back. Low Energy = She IOI's first.. I get more IOI's than I gave her. I don't think "Oh she gave me an IOI so I have to match exactly." I just do what feels right. So for me at least, and possible some of you, low energy works better at gaming chicks. Obviously your environment will play a role.. but a general rule of thumb.. You should talk to her like you could go for the kiss anytime you want. It shouldn''t be awkward going in for the kiss, but rather natural... which probably turns on girls... which is probably why all the IOI's I get. So yeah. Also, when I'm low energy... I am so much less nervous! It's great! |
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| Author: | lexcartney [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:13 am ] |
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Well I think that if it suits you and the responses are better, then yes you should take low energy. Maybe your low energy isnt perceived as low, and probably your high energy is way too high beyond bearable. So stick with what you feel comfortable with. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:21 am ] |
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I think energy gets misinterpreted. I always thought high energy just meant being in a good mood. You wanna be happy while you're out as opposed to being a brooding emo. No reason to be hyperactive. I think it depends on the venue a lot as well. I told guys "you wouldn't go into a starbucks spinning glowsticks and breakdancing" so save the insanity for when you feel like goin a little crazy. Just be a little bit happier to be wherever you are, I think you'll stand out. |
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| Author: | lexcartney [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:26 am ] |
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Agree with DJ_Z. For me, high energy means a social mood that releases a positive aura depending of the environment. I also like to call it, like Simple Pickup, "God Mode", which is when everything goes smooth and just how you like it, when the girls laugh at your jokes, etc. High energy is not being hyperactive and annoying. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:31 am ] |
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OP is on to something though. I'm naturally quiet. My best conversations come from simple, quiet observation. That's definitely not my party state though. At parties, everyone is up to a good energy level, and so am I. You can't be low energy at a party, unless you track down your target immediately, and are SO interesting that you can isolate and close without the social proof that high energy brings. For a lone girl, day game or night, I go in low energy. I want to find out about her, and she has nothing better to do, so she wants to find out about me. For groups, you need energy. If you don't come in with a little flavor, it doesn't matter what the girl beside you thinks, the rest of the group will blow you out. You need energy and strong, positive vibes. Experiment and find what works for you, everyone sees it differently. |
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| Author: | jabmaster [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 3:34 am ] |
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High energy always get misunderstood. It is not about having "high energy" always, the catch is having a little "higher energy" than your target and the people around. You just have to have a little more, that way you are calibrated and different. |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 8:23 pm ] |
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Once your past attraction, you have drop your energy and be chill and laid back. Otherwise, you will come across as a clown. |
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