hey, I have found a good way to start kino is to do things for a reason.
i have found kino successful by...
walking side by side, brushing arms (almost like walking into each other)
offering your arm for her to link up to you, making sure she has a good hold!
putting your arm around her shoulders whilst walking and pretending to be walking drunk (playful)
if it is icy or slippery holding her hand, or grabbing her by putting your arm behind her back and holding onto her waist.
if you are going out on a night out leading her by having your hand lightly on her lower back.
if it is cold having her close to you to keep warm.
all this gets her used to your touch very early,
it may lead to cuddling/kissing
on couch/in bed which is a good sign hehe
you can then rub her back/bum/thighs, shoulders
and then interlock fingers and legs to get more sexual
I have also had success offering a simple back massage using a nice smelling lotion or oil at her place (on a 2nd date) then smoothly escalating as she becomes aroused hehe
starting with her lying face down, massaging her back, then sat up facing away from you to do her shoulders & neck (+ kiss neck to turn her on)
then legs and chest then finally downstairs hehe
its only fair to take off your clothes too to match her so she feels comfortable hehe
key here is to say before hand 'squeeze my hand if at any time you feel uncomfortable'
and then at each stage say 'do you want me to stop' hehe before suggesting/instructing the next part to massage.
