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Author:  Silver8 [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  I suck at verbal

In online game I'm a master, I don't know what more! I meet girls online, i speak like Homer, they laugh, they enjoy every piece of it and they get seduced. Then when i go on the date i fucking suck! I make her laugh but it's not that what it is when we are online. I speak to girls often(like friends) What should i do(besides going to 100 more dates and screw them) By the way I'm not shy, no anxiety or something like that. I'm 100 confident :)

Author:  archer-x [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 5:51 pm ]
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So if you are 100% confident, without shyness or anxiety, then whats the problem?
Give an example of how your real life interaction doesn't work.

Author:  Silver8 [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:29 pm ]
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I don't know how to talk, if u know what i mean. I don't know how to seduce in real life

Author:  Donston [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:41 pm ]
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Try talking about anything you want ... but don't try to impress ^_^. Talk about anything that interests you ... say things that are funny to you ... do things that self amuses you ...

YOU, YOU, YOU .... then she will be attracted by anything you say ... even if its something stupid.

This is the art of VIBING ... can anyone tell me what VIBING is? Vibing is when you talk about anything, while pumping the girl with good emotions. For example, if you talk about something boring like about a story of how you hit traffic on your way home from work... but with an enthusiastic energetic way ... she will feel that! This is the law of state transfer ... what ever you feel ... she will feel!

Talk about anything ... whether it's boring or non relevant topics ... but with good emotions ... then she will feel this and this is called .... PROVIDING VALUE.

Providing Value is when only good emotion is coming out of you, when you say things that is funny to you and don't care if she think it is funny ... while the opposite is Sucking value (like a black hole) ... when you are trying to impress. When you are thinking to yourself ... I hope she will laugh at this joke ... like a dancing chode monkey.

Therefore, say things that are funny to you (providing value)... not what you think is funny to her (sucking value like a leech)...

Yada yada yada... don't try to impress ... then she will be impress ... the irony in game ^_^.

Sincerely,

Donston

Author:  papichulo818 [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 7:52 pm ]
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i suppose it's better than "sucking at Oral" Ahh I love puns!

Author:  archer-x [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:25 pm ]
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Um... you probably should do a bit of reading, Mystery Method is a good place to start, some David DeAngelo stuff too.

While talking try to be fun and positive, don't talk about problems at school or work, because frankly no girl will really give a fuck.
Try to avoid boring stuff and boring-ass questions, like "do you like music?; whats your favorite movie?; Do u have hobbies" (u can ask them, but don't over use them) Its much better to state, rather than ask - "You look like a rocker chick."; "U must be a dancer."

Be fun - tell interesting stories about yourself, that demonstrate high value - "this one time I went out windsurfing and the wind stopped while I was in the middle of the lake, but luckily for me, these two girls were motorboatin' by, so they helped me out " (ok not the best story, but something that indirectly shows how awesome you are, but these hints must be subtle, but as Donston mentioned, don't make it seem as if you are trying to impress her!)

And I guess the last thing I might add, ... imply sexual interest. It doesn't mean that you should whip out your cock or anything, but say little things, that would hint that you don't want to be her friend, u want to be her lover. You can do that by being just a little "bold". (she offers to have a drink - you:"Are you trying to get me drunk, so you could seduce me?" ... "You just want me because of my body, don't you." (kinda keep implying that she is the one after you. but don't overuse it! )

Author:  DJ_Z [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 8:58 pm ]
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Um... you probably should do a bit of reading, Mystery Method is a good place to start, some David DeAngelo stuff too.

While talking try to be fun and positive, don't talk about problems at school or work, because frankly no girl will really give a fuck.
Try to avoid boring stuff and boring-ass questions, like "do you like music?; whats your favorite movie?; Do u have hobbies" (u can ask them, but don't over use them) Its much better to state, rather than ask - "You look like a rocker chick."; "U must be a dancer."

Be fun - tell interesting stories about yourself, that demonstrate high value - "this one time I went out windsurfing and the wind stopped while I was in the middle of the lake, but luckily for me, these two girls were motorboatin' by, so they helped me out " (ok not the best story, but something that indirectly shows how awesome you are, but these hints must be subtle, but as Donston mentioned, don't make it seem as if you are trying to impress her!)

And I guess the last thing I might add, ... imply sexual interest. It doesn't mean that you should whip out your cock or anything, but say little things, that would hint that you don't want to be her friend, u want to be her lover. You can do that by being just a little "bold". (she offers to have a drink - you:"Are you trying to get me drunk, so you could seduce me?" ... "You just want me because of my body, don't you." (kinda keep implying that she is the one after you. but don't overuse it! )
MM is not good, particularly for beginners, actually.

OP, if you wanna figure out what's wrong, how physical are you on dates? Do you hold her hand, take her arm, spin her on the dance floor, and just stand physically closer to her, or do you stay at arm's length, makes jokes, and then dive for a kiss from six feet away?

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