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Author:  neztirual [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 2:44 pm ]
Post subject:  was this one text so bad it ruined all attraction? help guys
Hi!

I just want your guys opinion on this case, and maybe you can help me to recover.


I work as a bartender, and friday I had this hot girl at my bar. We have some mutual friends, one that is my fellow bartender, but I don't know her.

So, the next day, my co-bartender told me she called him after work and asked my name and told him to say to me that I was handsome. Since this girl i superhot, I was happy and thought this was going to be easy.

And it seemed like it would. The next day she was there again, and after closing time at 3AM she went up to the bar and said. "I just want to tell you something". i said "what is that?". "I think you are really handsome!". We talked for a couple of minutes and I said we could meat for some fast food after work. At this time I was certain to get laid :P

We went to an afterparty together, but their parents were home, so we just sat in this girls room. We had a lot of fun, made out with her, but we ended up sleeping on the floor, she through up at some point, and since there were others in the room . no sex. Okay really, considering the circumstances.


The next day I left early, she was still half asleep. I had to go a meeting.

This girl was superhot and really fun, so I of course want to f-close her. Late the night after I sent her a text. And I think i failed. Been almost 24 hrs and no reply. I thought see would reply fast with the level of attraction I felt we had.

So, this is what I sent her:

"Hi xxxxxxx. Nice meeting you yesterday. But hey, sleeping on the floor, throwing up and lukewarm beer!? You'll get another shot if you guess what was in my pocket when I got home ;)"

I referenced to some of the things that happened, but maybe she is offended by the negatives like throwing up and sleeping on the floor. She was a bit embarassed and scared she's used her chance (she said). My goal was to joke it off, as well as maybe get an answer like "yeah, next just you and me, a bed an cold beverages". The guessing part is because she gave me her underwear as a souvenir and put it in my back pocket when she was kinda drunk.


So, what do you think? Was this message so bad she would loose all interest??

How do I recover guys?



Thanks!
Author:  SmoothOp [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:08 pm ]
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Haha, yeah that text was a little insulting. She most likely is embarrassed. She might still repond.

I would wait a couple days and make try to re-engage text talk without mentioning
being drunk or puking. Just start the convo off light and humourous. If you see her in person, game her but avoid anything about the night. Also DO NOT get your co-worker to play matchmaker. But try to sneak valuable information if he has any.

I think you will be fine and she may be embarrassed or have buyer's remorse cuase she doesn't know you well. Just build up some comfort as she is already attracted.
Author:  neztirual [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 11:56 pm ]
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turns out she has e boyfriend :P long-distance relationship appearently not working out very well, but this could be why she isn't answering. What do you think!?
Author:  lloydPapi [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:27 am ]
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turns out she has e boyfriend long-distance relationship appearently not working out very well, but this could be why she isn't answering. What do you think!?
she might be lying about long distance relationship shit if not then why did she invite you to her place ?? if she was in a relationship unless she just wanted to fuck you thats all although she was in a relationship
Author:  neztirual [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:52 am ]
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she aint lying. got this from our mutual friend, and its at facebook as well :P he also told me she had told him she wanted to break up.

i think she might just want to have sex. Since I don't know her too well, for now, thats what I want as well.

So, should I wait a couple of days, and try to text her something funny light-hearted and see if I get a response now??
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 12:54 am ]
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she aint lying. got this from our mutual friend, and its at facebook as well :P he also told me she had told him she wanted to break up.

i think she might just want to have sex. Since I don't know her too well, for now, thats what I want as well.

So, should I wait a couple of days, and try to text her something funny light-hearted and see if I get a response now??
Wait a week at least. Then text her something direct. "Hey, I missed you lately. What are you doing later? I'm going [whatever] and I could use a hot date"
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