PUA Forum :: I think I blew it. I'm really confused. What to do?

I've been seeing this girl for the past month and a half. Things are pretty good between me and her. I've met her parents. She's a pretty good girl. When we're together we laugh, make out sesh galore, sex, and it's pretty awesome. But I think I messed up real bad. We were cuddling on my bed talking and stuff. Then I figured it would be a good idea to say "Hey, you should be my girlfriend." Bad idea. This is basically how it went.

Me: Hey, you should be my girlfriend
HB8: Uhm... Can I think about it?
Me: Think about it?
HB8: Uh, yeah. Actually, just kidding!
Me: *Confused face*

I'm kicking myself for not asking what she meant by just kidding. But after that we made out and cuddled for a bit longer. She wouldn't have sex but she stayed late as she could and even said "I don't want to leave." But she had to get home for work in the morning. So here I am confused. Thinking I killed my chances with this girl. What would you guys do?

Thanks!

Next time you guys are having sex... and shes screaming " YES! YES! YES! OH MY GOD YES! , Just quietly whisper " Wanna be my girlfriend?" and she'll scream "YES!"

Works like a charm lol

Seriously, cut it out dude, your going to psych yourself out of this when nothing is wrong.. You got all butt hurt when she made a joke. Why do you wanna be her boyfriend anyway? Your already smashing, you know her parents.. whats your reason?

Thanks guys!
I think my worst problem is I over-analyze. It sucks. So should I just play it off and act like I never said anything?

And it seems I have to make Valentines Day pretty killer.

OooOOOh boy. Ok, don't sweat what you did, what's done is done. Act as though you never even asked it (though it will be on her mind, rest assured). Best you can do is move forward and not bring it up again (she knows how you feel, let her be the one to ask you to be hers, if that's what she wants).

Stop trying to spell everything out for a girl, it kills the romance, the fantasy of it all. Women, most anyway, want to feel that things were just 'meant to be'; think in all those stupid sappy love movies, and romance novels chicks read; how often is it that the guy spells it out for her? It should appear to unfold organically, none of this "will you be my girl?" BS. Enjoy her, bend her over and fuck her hard, jizz in her face, go take her to a movie, once in a while to a restaurant, or even a picnic whatever... just give her a glimpse at how often life would be with you so she can't resist saying anything but "YES, YES, YES!!!"

hahah that was corny.

Author:	AznRoll [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 7:49 am ]
Post subject:	I think I blew it. I'm really confused. What to do?
I've been seeing this girl for the past month and a half. Things are pretty good between me and her. I've met her parents. She's a pretty good girl. When we're together we laugh, make out sesh galore, sex, and it's pretty awesome. But I think I messed up real bad. We were cuddling on my bed talking and stuff. Then I figured it would be a good idea to say "Hey, you should be my girlfriend." Bad idea. This is basically how it went. Me: Hey, you should be my girlfriend HB8: Uhm... Can I think about it? Me: Think about it? HB8: Uh, yeah. Actually, just kidding! Me: Confused face I'm kicking myself for not asking what she meant by just kidding. But after that we made out and cuddled for a bit longer. She wouldn't have sex but she stayed late as she could and even said "I don't want to leave." But she had to get home for work in the morning. So here I am confused. Thinking I killed my chances with this girl. What would you guys do? Thanks!

Author:	neyos [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 10:28 am ]
Post subject:	Re: I think I blew it. I'm really confused. What to do?
Quote: I've been seeing this girl for the past month and a half. Things are pretty good between me and her. I've met her parents. She's a pretty good girl. When we're together we laugh, make out sesh galore, sex, and it's pretty awesome. But I think I messed up real bad. We were cuddling on my bed talking and stuff. Then I figured it would be a good idea to say "Hey, you should be my girlfriend." Bad idea. This is basically how it went. Me: Hey, you should be my girlfriend HB8: Uhm... Can I think about it? Me: Think about it? HB8: Uh, yeah. Actually, just kidding! Me: Confused face I'm kicking myself for not asking what she meant by just kidding. But after that we made out and cuddled for a bit longer. She wouldn't have sex but she stayed late as she could and even said "I don't want to leave." But she had to get home for work in the morning. So here I am confused. Thinking I killed my chances with this girl. What would you guys do? Thanks! it does feel as if she somewhat already thought of you being her boyfriend and vice versa ..learn to shut up and enjoy the silence..just go with the flow and leave some things unsaid otherwise you run danger of degrading the special thing you got going on together to the level of political negotiations. hopefully you said : "Hey, you should be my girlfriend" in a very kidding fashion to your "precious"..

Author:	Entourages [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 2:00 pm ]
Post subject:
Dont worry nothing is wrong bro, your over analyzing this stuff. Get her something special, like a small trinket that you know she will like and remind her of you. Something that you spoke about before, like her favorite animal is ... so you get her a stuffed animal. She was busy, maybe she has her period and didnt want to have sex? There are many reasons, but dont worry. She still stayed over all night. She might have thought you both were bf gf already, but just kind of play with it now. Say, "You know if I was someones boyfriend, I would have to be really sweet and all to them" then do something "evil cute" you know what I mean? Then just hook up right after. Its playful love. Seriously you are fine, but definitely do something special on valentines day. Don't forget. Take her out to dinner, then find something to do in your town thats interesting. If she is scared of heights, possibly do something revolving around that so you can conquer her fears together. Make it fun and something she wont forget.

Author:	Super Hans [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 3:20 pm ]
Post subject:
Listen to Raphael. You are definitely overanalysing Valentines day is the key, I wouldn't mention the boyfriend thing actually on your valentines day out but if you make it special enough and you have a great night she'll be desperate for you to bring it up again.

Author:	AznRoll [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:
Thanks guys! I think my worst problem is I over-analyze. It sucks. So should I just play it off and act like I never said anything? And it seems I have to make Valentines Day pretty killer.

PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

I think I blew it. I'm really confused. What to do? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=127928	Page 1 of 1

Author:	papichulo818 [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:
OooOOOh boy. Ok, don't sweat what you did, what's done is done. Act as though you never even asked it (though it will be on her mind, rest assured). Best you can do is move forward and not bring it up again (she knows how you feel, let her be the one to ask you to be hers, if that's what she wants). Stop trying to spell everything out for a girl, it kills the romance, the fantasy of it all. Women, most anyway, want to feel that things were just 'meant to be'; think in all those stupid sappy love movies, and romance novels chicks read; how often is it that the guy spells it out for her? It should appear to unfold organically, none of this "will you be my girl?" BS. Enjoy her, bend her over and fuck her hard, jizz in her face, go take her to a movie, once in a while to a restaurant, or even a picnic whatever... just give her a glimpse at how often life would be with you so she can't resist saying anything but "YES, YES, YES!!!" hahah that was corny.

Author:	EddieFews [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 5:43 pm ]
Post subject:
Next time you guys are having sex... and shes screaming " YES! YES! YES! OH MY GOD YES! , Just quietly whisper " Wanna be my girlfriend?" and she'll scream "YES!" Works like a charm lol Seriously, cut it out dude, your going to psych yourself out of this when nothing is wrong.. You got all butt hurt when she made a joke. Why do you wanna be her boyfriend anyway? Your already smashing, you know her parents.. whats your reason?

Author:	papichulo818 [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: Next time you guys are having sex... and shes screaming " YES! YES! YES! OH MY GOD YES! , Just quietly whisper " Wanna be my girlfriend?" and she'll scream "YES!" Works like a charm lol Seriously, cut it out dude, your going to psych yourself out of this when nothing is wrong.. You got all butt hurt when she made a joke. Why do you wanna be her boyfriend anyway? Your already smashing, you know her parents.. whats your reason? He wants to knock her up and seal the deal, durh! Probably poking holes in the condoms right now, if not I just gave him a bad idea....

Author:	AznRoll [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:
Hahaha! Okay okay. I'll chill, I'll chill. Glad, I can come here and get some advice from you guys. Otherwise blah who knows . I'll continue doing my thing with her. And I guess I just wanted validation or something. Ah, whatever. And @papichulo818 Great idea . Mine in no time. Hahaha.

Author:	neyos [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: Thanks guys! I think my worst problem is I over-analyze. It sucks. So should I just play it off and act like I never said anything? And it seems I have to make Valentines Day pretty killer. over analyzing..eh? you got the stuff for politics screw it; I wouldn't overrate Valentine's Day..Valentine as a matchmaker is just being overcommercialized like Christ. why wait for Valentine's day? next time you go to a deli with her make an engagement ring out of toothpick wrapping paper and add a flower napkin ..then get engaged in a humorous way..nothing serious...

Author:	Entourages [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:
Quote: OooOOOh boy. Ok, don't sweat what you did, what's done is done. Act as though you never even asked it (though it will be on her mind, rest assured). Best you can do is move forward and not bring it up again (she knows how you feel, let her be the one to ask you to be hers, if that's what she wants). Stop trying to spell everything out for a girl, it kills the romance, the fantasy of it all. Women, most anyway, want to feel that things were just 'meant to be'; think in all those stupid sappy love movies, and romance novels chicks read; how often is it that the guy spells it out for her? It should appear to unfold organically, none of this "will you be my girl?" BS. Enjoy her, bend her over and fuck her hard, jizz in her face, go take her to a movie, once in a while to a restaurant, or even a picnic whatever... just give her a glimpse at how often life would be with you so she can't resist saying anything but "YES, YES, YES!!!" hahah that was corny. Especially the cum in her eyes line... so corny but quoting romantic comedies??? Luigi dont tell me you watch movies like Valentines day and New years. Thats what I watch... and well... AHaha he is completely right, live the moment dont care about anything. I think I said that though, but yea woman want a prince charming fairytale let her see that with you and you are fine.

Page 1 of 1	All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/