Don't call her out. That will let her know it's affecting you.

Mirror her actions. Take just as long to reply to her texts as she takes to reply to yours. Randomly ignore some of her texts - don't respond at all. If she starts going through a barrage of fast responses, reward her for the good behavior by doing the same in return. Train her like a dog. A dog of the female variety. A bitch.

You don't have to keep playing along, but you don't need to make a scene of it and look like a 7 year old boy who was just told he can't have a cookie. You know she makes you wait, so just have a life. Don't text her then put everything else on hold waiting for her answer. Women aren't that different, they do these games because they want to avoid overinvesting and all those other things we say are bad on sites like this one. Don't fall for it again, and if things don't pick up then I'd say yeah, just move on.

Looks like there's too much bantering and not enough rapport as you said. She obviously likes you but you haven't showed her whose boss. You need to control the frame.

She tells you she's text gaming you and waiting on purpose to get you to act in certain ways?

You tell her, "Actually, girls who play games aren't very genuine. I like a girl who can be real with me." Nothing personal. You're not calling her out on it. But it will DEFINITELY set the frame and get her to qualify hard.

How would I bring that up without triggering the bitch shield? I'm guessing you mean in person?

It's better in person but you can do it over text as well, who cares about her bitch shield. If she refuses to qualify but puts up a bitch shield, next her and tell her, "It was a pleasure knowing you, her name." You're in control. No arguing, no debating, no questions asked. If she's going to fuck you, you need to communicate with her from a position of power. She's a cute little child, give her a little slap on the wrist.

She just replied answering my last text and also said "sorry been really busy all afternoon and I not good at multitasking"

She sent this while still on the site so I just replied...

"Hi, I was thinking about what you said on our date and I've got to admit that I like a girl who can be real with me. Ive always felt that girls who play games are not very genuine. Nothing personal but it's not what really what I'm looking for at the moment"

She replied instantly saying

"No probs......."


I'm guessing the .......is an attempt to get me to justify my message but in reality I can't be assed!

You were supposed to say that on the moment when she admitted to text gaming you, not come out of the blue with it. It's like saying, "Hey remember that one night we fought? Yeah, you were wrong." What you're supposed to be doing right now is trying to set another date or be a sexual threat with her.

Come out with a text saying, "What's your favorite position."
Her: Why do you need to know?
Me: Because I was having thoughts about you last night.
Her: Umm I don't roll like that. Me: I'm just being honest.
Her: Umm you're perverted. Me: You're just sexy, it's all your fault.

Your texting now must be aimed at seducing her and pushing it forwards. Don't go backwards with it and discuss things that aren't related to your attraction towards her.