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| Author: | Astaire [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 3:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Trying to score a virgin (HB9) |
Hi guys, basically, I'm a 19 y.o university student that's a 'contextual' PUA within my friend group, sleeping with 3 girls in my first semester, however, while still aware of the PUA methods I still consider myself quite AFC. Since the first lecture a girl on my course sort of struck me straight away as beautiful and unique, and have been dying to score with her for quite a while. Over around 3 months (of seeing her around once or twice a week) I've been making what I think is 'steady' progress, as the large intervals didn't really allow me to work in a good way, this is as the modules she takes only appear on my schedule once a week. We have a great chemistry and rapport, and she obviously enjoys my company. She has a few unique implications: -She reacts heavily to negs, and applies them as aspects of my character, e.g "Oh my god, you're so judgemental!' etc (even following mitigation of a neg) -She's obviously a heavy thinker, and a decisively enigmatic/elusive person, rarely using social networking sites, and using a fairly out of date/old mobile phone. -Sexual hints are often deemed as sorely serious. On a night out once, I found her in the smoking area hanging with some friends, we pretty much talked until it was over, with many of the things I said being sexual implications, or PUAesque material, with the hope of a kiss-close, but that didn't even materialise. Similarly to the statements listed above, some of my actions were seen as overtly sexual, even if they were just light hints. These days, she constantly reminds of this evening, and asks me if I'm going to the same event on a later date (I haven't done this yet). One person on the course has wrongly labelled me as a 'player' to her, stating also that I'm some sort of misogynist. You could say it's oneitis, but it's very rare I feel that I want a relationship with a girl, and she's one of the those girls, where with other females I find I'd just enjoy sleeping with them, and their company is secondary. The big factor seems to be that she was privately educated in the past, and has many actions that make her seem like a virgin, for example, she's constantly complaining about other guys that hit on her, even if they aren't, she seems paranoid about her sexual being. So how do I move this 'thing' into a relationship? Are there specific techniques for scoring virgins, making them more comfortable with sexual subjects? Thanks for reading, and if you would help me, I'd be ultimately grateful. I'm willing to provide further detail on request. DM |
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| Author: | CaliForniCatioN [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 5:07 pm ] |
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vergin(i doubt that!) or not,it dosen't fucking matter! if you got game,she's gonna drool over you,its like an hb10 without brains,you dont care,you just wanns fuck her..got it? when you are an alpha,why would she not want you? you are fucking better then all the guys out there!(unless she is gay,i dont see any reason...) stay cool muthafucker  
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| Author: | Aegis88 [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:04 am ] |
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Dude, being a virgin at the age of 19 isnt that rare and its usually because of the same reason : "I'm waiting for the right guy". If you feel that you've made good progress just keep it going and dont start altering your behaviour just because she hasnt had sex yet. You should however not game her exactly like other girls cause it seems that you actually do wanna be with this one. The only way making her comfortable with sexual subjects is physically introducing them to her... Cant you just grab a beer/coffee/sushi/ whatever venue you prefer with her one on one and take it up from there? |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 12:24 am ] |
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3 months??? steady progress??? Doesn't exist here man, you haven't done jack!! Sounds like you have no testicles if you haven't made a move in 3 MONTHS! DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:29 am ] |
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Quote: 3 months??? steady progress??? Doesn't exist here man, you haven't done jack!!
I agree, I'd say the pressure of being her first is causing you to hold back your sexual side. You are probably being overly non-sexual and treating her like a Virgin instead of just treating her like a woman. She's a human being with sexual needs, treat her like that and just see what happens. She might sleep with you, she might not, it all depends on her. But if you treat her different just because she's a virgin, she will never feel comfortable getting sexual with you.
Sounds like you have no testicles if you haven't made a move in 3 MONTHS! DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. |
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| Author: | Stylite [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:37 am ] |
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I love virgins... They respond well to romance. Once you have her comfortable with you and you guys are borderline in a relationship (i.e. you've been on several dates together and kiss regularly) romance the hell out of her. Go against every PUA technique you've been told and go into cheesy romance mode. Always worked like a charm for me, if you really make a girl feel SUPER special/important it's much easier for her to give it up to you. I feel like a lot of members on here are going to argue against that and from a PUA perspective I would too but it's always the same story for virgins. They look for the "right guy" so be the guy that makes her feel like a queen. Surprise her with flowers or something. I've taken 5 girls' V-Cards in my life. I get them to fall for me in the attraction phase, then once we're "together" I crank up the romance and just do amazing things for her like no other guy ever has. I once took this amazing 19yo Portugese girls' V-Card in 2 weeks when her previous boyfriend dated her for 2 years and came out empty handed (I was actually friends with her ex which was kind of awkward and he always told me I wouldn't be able to get it haha) Now, it's kind of an evil thing to do if you don't truly like the girl and want to be with her, but it works. - Stylite |
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| Author: | Stylite [ Sun Feb 05, 2012 1:39 am ] |
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I should also mention not only did that Portugese chick give me her virginity, I also got her (and 2 other virgins I fucked) to buy lingerie to wear for me before it haha (I have a thing for thigh high stockings... sexiest shit ever) - Stylite |
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