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| Author: | teaper [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 7:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Disarm Obstacles (Her Friends) |
Hey guys I need some help on being able to build comfort with my target's friends. Brief story here, I met this girl the other night, opened her up with "Who do you think lies more, guys or girls" then proceeded with DHV, phase shift, etc. until I kiss closed. One week later (tonight), I met up with her at a bar but she was with two of her girlfriends who seemed protective of her. My first mistake was not properly introducing myself to them. As the night went on, my target said that her friends did not like me. Just like that! Right out in the open. So my questions are, 1. how do i convey interest to her friends without seeming weird 2. if a girl wants you to dance with her but dancing isn't your forte, what do you do? |
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| Author: | Gizmo1000 [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 11:52 am ] |
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I feel for ya bud- I'm a terrible dancer! My advice is. 1. Make sure where ever your going isn't going to be conducive to dancing. Quiet bars, a restaurant, a fun day out somewhere etc... But never somewhere where there will be odds on a dance floor! 2. Don't go out with a targets friends as well, if a girl says her friends are coming out UNLESS you can bring a wing (or more if she has a couple of friends) 3. Just tell her you can re arrange to go out with her another time As you would "like to get to know you better and spend quality time with you, and that would be easier if it's just the two of us" |
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| Author: | teaper [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 6:22 pm ] |
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Awesome, thanks for the advice. |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 6:44 pm ] |
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Don't give a shit what her friends think or say. You're not really seducing her to begin with. You're just dealing with all this irrelevant crap that doesn't get you any closer to your objective: f-close. Don't try to fit the boyfriend role of being liked by her friends and everything going stellar. In fact, when a target has her friends, I like to transition the seductive vibe onto them as well. I will make seductive eye contact with each of her friends as they talk to me and even touch them, but in a more incidental manner, not so much overt. You don't want to come across as if you're hitting on them since you're after your target, you just want to make them feel weird inside, build sexual tension with them too. I've had situations like these where the target eventually began to resent me due to her friends' bullshit and overthinking, but ended up fucking one of her friends. |
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