I'm about to kick my own ass for this one. I'm trying to work my magic on a girl I go to school with, we're 22 and 23 years old. During the course of a conversation one time, she ended up telling me when her birthday is, which just so happened to be 2 weeks away at the time.

Likely because she expected something special from you.

The day before her birthday, I was talking to her and asked if she had any plans for it, etc. The point of me telling you this is that I acknowledged the fact that I KNEW her birthday was the next day.

And then you ignored her on her bday, smooth.

So the next day rolls around, and what do I do? Absolutely fucking nothing. My rationale for not doing so is something I'd rather not get into, but the point is, I didn't even wish her a happy birthday.

You reacted in a petty way, possibly she did something that pissed you off. Either way, you neglected her 'special day'

Since then, she's brought this fact up several times about how she can't believe I didn't acknowledge her etc. She says it playfully but I can tell she was kind of hurt by it.

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It's now 2 weeks later since this happened and she's still going on and on about it. I don't even know what to say or how to handle it when she does this. So what do I do? And should I try to make it up to her somehow?

Yeah, definitely not going to ignore her comments. Enough damage has been done and I look like a big enough douche as it is; no need to make it any worse.

Thanks for the response. I was planning on having her go out with me for a nice night, it's just an awkward situation for me to present it to her.

"So...you know how I forgot your birthday? Well, not forgot, but...fuck."

Don't even sweat it bro. It's probably for the best that you forgot. Look at the results, she's chasing you now. It made you stand out opposed to the all the other people that wished her Happy Birthday that she probably forgot about already.

So how did it go?