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Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Masturbation & Porn ( I fucked up Guys)
So I had read and article a few months back about masturbation, It stated that when you masturbate your brain releases these chemical(Can't remember the name) that make women subconsciously less attracted to you. I did a ton of extra research and came to the conclusion that I was never going to masturbate again. It make me feel weak, lethargic, and not confident anyway.

Shortly after I stopped, I began meditation regularly, just keeping my brain alert and as sharp as possible.. I picked up on my exercise and began to eat better..

Since two weeks ago, I had 4 girls that were calling me every night and that I was having sex with regularly. Just two nights ago, I had one of the girls over my place real late.. She didn't tell me until she had came over that she was on her period and that it was really heavy.. Long story short that meant I wasn't getting any sex. I was horny as hell. The blow job just didn't help, after a few hours she left and I was still feeling the same. I called each one of the other chicks but im guessing they were all sleep...

I'm horny so im like fuck it... www dot porn hub dot com... I gave myself two good schwackings and went to bed. Woke up feeling like a tired lifeless loser. I hated the feeling and grew angry with myself for even doing it in the first place. Like an idiot I felt them temptation to do it again, and I gave into it once more.. Felt like banging my head into a wall..

From that point on, the 4 chicks I was talking to, that were calling me with consistency, and asking me if they could come over constantly, have not called me or texted me.. I texted a few of them but the conversations were just unusually boring. I just couldn't text how I used to. They just seemed to lose all interest.

I'm writing this to say, masturbation killed my game. Once I stopped I was in and out of girls like dirty underwear. From the moment I gave into it again, the girls I had already just didn't want me anymore..

So now i'm back at ground zero, I have to work my way back up to where I was..

Here goes nothing :)

I'm interested in hearing if anyone has had any similar experiences or any thoughts you may have.

Thanks for reading
Author:  Rustyskillz [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:55 am ]
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I know that masturbation can kill your drive, your ambition and the sexual tension that you can create, but I think you may be taking it a bit far. Sounds like a bit mixed with superstition!

I am going to quit masturbating though! See if it helps. Haha
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:59 am ]
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Hell yea, a lot of it is in my head lol

But the energy I began to put after after I did it had something to do with it as well.. It's too big of a coincidence for me. I feel its best to just let the girls bust your nuts for you.
Author:  motownsoul [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:04 am ]
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lmao








Maybe that's my problem :oops:








I've been getting back into meditation myself..It helps to clear my mind and negative emotions while I get my shit together..

A few years ago when I practiced meditation several times a day, every day..I gained great control and even ejaculated twice without touching myself....Give it a try, Fuze...much like your post about "Having a girlfriend without having a girlfriend".....You can also "masturbate without masturbating"...It takes time and practice, but its possible. I'm not sure about the chemical difference, but if you're feeling guilty about it, use your mind, not your hand lol
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:07 am ]
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lmao








Maybe that's my problem :oops:








I've been getting back into meditation myself..It helps to clear my mind and negative emotions while I get my shit together..

A few years ago when I practiced meditation several times a day, every day..I gained great control and even ejaculated twice without touching myself....Give it a try, Fuze...much like your post about "Having a girlfriend without having a girlfriend".....You can also "masturbate without masturbating"...It takes time and practice, but its possible. I'm not sure about the chemical difference, but if you're feeling guilty about it, use your mind, not your hand lol
When you learn to make chicks ejaculate with just the power of your mind I'll give it a shot ;)
Author:  motownsoul [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:11 am ]
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That, I have yet to do..and ironically never tried for some reason...guess I was always just too in the moment to think with that head lmao BUT.....I do believe its possible, with hardcore focus and intention, to make a girl reach orgasm without touching her the ways you normally would to arouse her to that point....I'll try it out and let you know. I'll stop masturbating for 2 weeks starting in about...4 minutes. If shit doesn't pick up by then, I'm calling it quits lol
Author:  Pacer [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:15 am ]
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Hmm, maybe I should give up masturbation, or is this a superstition? Who knows, but seems worth a go :)
Author:  motownsoul [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:21 am ]
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Something to look into, I suppose...

I know when I have no girls that interested, when I masturbate I feel down afterwards because I would much rather have a female do it for me haha

But it makes sense about the chemical release...Its something I'll look into and research to see if theres a real, legit, difference between when you masturbate and have sex...kinda interesting
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:26 am ]
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That, I have yet to do..and ironically never tried for some reason...guess I was always just too in the moment to think with that head lmao BUT.....I do believe its possible, with hardcore focus and intention, to make a girl reach orgasm without touching her the ways you normally would to arouse her to that point....I'll try it out and let you know. I'll stop masturbating for 2 weeks starting in about...4 minutes. If shit doesn't pick up by then, I'm calling it quits lol
I believe anything is possible dude.. You can trip some chicks the fuck out with that lol

But what i've learned is to never put a time limit on how long your going to stop doing something. It doesn't work.. For example, if you quit for 2 weeks there will be no change but I bet you my muppets autographed sock things will pick up after those 2 weeks you gave yourself.

When I quit, I sent out the energy that im done with this for good.. And it didn't take but a few days before something happened for me. Its about the energy and force of the decision and not the decision itself. I hope that makes sense.

Do some research and find some real deep rooted reason for stopping. Don't just do it because I said it got ME some ass.

When you make positive decisions, you get positive outcomes.

And what I read also is, when you ejaculate you lose some testosterone, however when you have sex with a women, the exchange of fluids gives you a chemical from the female system that balances you out. I also believe the chemical you get from females raises others attraction for you.
Author:  CanuckEH [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:27 am ]
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I read up on a thread on this forum about this. I gave it a shot. Pretty much always jerk'd it whenever I felt like. So, this was new to me.

I definatly noticed a stronger sex drive, getting hard easier and a spark... when I caved in 10 days later, I felt... strange. I felt as if I lost that spark, that extra bit of hornyness. The next day, I went to the gym and still felt it. After a day, I began feeling what I felt when I wasn't stroking it.

Honestly, I can't say I will not ever masturbate. But, I can say that I am doing my best to stop. You may get hard easier but it makes me want to go out and get chicks. Gives me a greater sex drive.

It's strange, I was skeptical. I didn't think it was true. Maybe there is no science-y stuff behind it but there's something to it when you don't stroke it..
Author:  Pacer [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:30 am ]
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Decided to read up on this topic, came across this, had a read of it seems interesting:

http://themodernsavage.com/2009/02/04/e ... ing-women/
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:31 am ]
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Quote:
I read up on a thread on this forum about this. I gave it a shot. Pretty much always jerk'd it whenever I felt like. So, this was new to me.

I definatly noticed a stronger sex drive, getting hard easier and a spark... when I caved in 10 days later, I felt... strange. I felt as if I lost that spark, that extra bit of hornyness. The next day, I went to the gym and still felt it. After a day, I began feeling what I felt when I wasn't stroking it.

Honestly, I can't say I will not ever masturbate. But, I can say that I am doing my best to stop. You may get hard easier but it makes me want to go out and get chicks. Gives me a greater sex drive.

It's strange, I was skeptical. I didn't think it was true. Maybe there is no science-y stuff behind it but there's something to it when you don't stroke it..
Funny thing bro... I've learned that when I resist the strongest urges to masturbate I always end up having sex with a girl 1-3 days later. It's like a test. Be strong!!!!!!!!!!! Resist temptation
Author:  Rustyskillz [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:42 am ]
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Ok so after reading the posted article, this is what I get, and am gonna try.

For 5-7 days, let's say a week, no masturbation equals heightened testosterone levels.

After day 7 they jump back to normal

So I say once a week whack it and restart the cycle, if you aren't getting laid that is.

So if gaming happens most thursday - sunday, and Monday - Wednesday youre trying to date those you gamed, I say on a failed week ima bust a nut on Wednesday.

So you all know what I'll be doing... heh
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 5:48 am ]
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Quote:
Ok so after reading the posted article, this is what I get, and am gonna try.

For 5-7 days, let's say a week, no masturbation equals heightened testosterone levels.

After day 7 they jump back to normal

So I say once a week whack it and restart the cycle, if you aren't getting laid that is.

So if gaming happens most thursday - sunday, and Monday - Wednesday youre trying to date those you gamed, I say on a failed week ima bust a nut on Wednesday.

So you all know what I'll be doing... heh
I saw that article too.. I suggest doing a bit more research before you commit to that idea

I also noticed that when I have girlfriends, every time I masturbate I would end up in some power struggle argument with my girlfriend.. I would even do it just to test if the argument would happen and it always did.

Like I said, maybe this is my own superstition effecting me but who knows :)
Author:  motownsoul [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 6:09 am ]
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That, I have yet to do..and ironically never tried for some reason...guess I was always just too in the moment to think with that head lmao BUT.....I do believe its possible, with hardcore focus and intention, to make a girl reach orgasm without touching her the ways you normally would to arouse her to that point....I'll try it out and let you know. I'll stop masturbating for 2 weeks starting in about...4 minutes. If shit doesn't pick up by then, I'm calling it quits lol
I believe anything is possible dude.. You can trip some chicks the fuck out with that lol

But what i've learned is to never put a time limit on how long your going to stop doing something. It doesn't work.. For example, if you quit for 2 weeks there will be no change but I bet you my muppets autographed sock things will pick up after those 2 weeks you gave yourself.

When I quit, I sent out the energy that im done with this for good.. And it didn't take but a few days before something happened for me. Its about the energy and force of the decision and not the decision itself. I hope that makes sense.

Do some research and find some real deep rooted reason for stopping. Don't just do it because I said it got ME some ass.

When you make positive decisions, you get positive outcomes.

And what I read also is, when you ejaculate you lose some testosterone, however when you have sex with a women, the exchange of fluids gives you a chemical from the female system that balances you out. I also believe the chemical you get from females raises others attraction for you.

You raised good points..and its not that I'm giving myself a time limit. I've been busting my ass trying to get a job..so I'll stop masturbating and focus on getting hired at one of the many places I've applied at recently lol I know once I get a steady job, all else will be more easily attained..Can't wait to have the extra cash to go out and do shit, and meet new people...and maybe I can even make it into a story to tell them... "Oh Motown! how did you become so cool?!"......."Well babe...I hit rock bottom, quit smoking, and stopped masturbating, and here we are!!"

Even if its true, that is sure to generate some laughs because no one expects to hear any type of success story beginning with "I stopped masturbating" haha
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