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| Author: | JoeB [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 5:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I regain a girls trust? |
Hey everyone really need your help here, I’ll start off by saying I consider myself pretty AFC and need to change this, but firstly I really need help regaining this girl’s trust. I’ve been hooking up with this girl on off for about a year now, she gave me the LJBF speech toward the end of last year but we continued to meet up and hook up as friends, At the start of last year everything was great except i think i drove her away due to my AFC type behaviour, we continued to get together and on most occasions hook up and maybe go further, I kept this too myself only telling a few close friends and they ended up telling people and breaking my trust and this girl knows about this, I didnt mean for that to happen and probably should have kept it to myself in the first place. She told only 2 of her closest friends and who she told was important too her, so when I told her a few of my friends knew she felt like she couldn’t trust me anymore. This girl is really sweet and I don’t want to be seen as an ass hole in her eyes or anything and I wouldn’t mind still being close with this person except she told me she will never see me the same again, I have no idea what to do her responses and bland like I am nothing special to her anymore and we would catch up a lot but I’m afraid it might slow down now. All I’m asking is how to regain this girl’s trust I wouldn’t make this mistake again and I want her to come to me and be very close to me, even if it is as a friend. I’m too AFC though and I need advice and help on getting her to see me differently as someone who is safe and she can trust, also to want to see me on a regular basis even as friends. She doesn’t believe in second chances but I think she might see something different in me. I’m in desperate need of help. Just really need help getting her to trust me again also to show her that shes different and I'm "different" to guys who have hurt her in the past. I hope some one listens to my story Any Response is appreciated, Thanks. Ps because I’m a new member I wasn’t sure where to post this, if there is a better thread could someone let me know thanks. |
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| Author: | lexcartney [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 10:23 pm ] |
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seems like you got oneitis, but thats okay. As the Venusian Arts book says, you shouldnt really spend time fixing things in the damage zone, instead you should go out and meet other girls, just do it for the practice and dont take any courtship to seriously, have the "I dont give a fuck" mentality. You definitely learned a lesson, discretion is a virtue, and thats really important, to learn from mistakes. Maybe it doesnt really answer your question but Im not that experienced. Hope it helps. |
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