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Author:  Wall1e [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  How to punish a girl for forgetting agreements?
Hey i'm a little bit more experienced over the weeks, but I still don't really know how to punish a girl for forgetting certain appointments such as letting know if she has time to go out with you. for example this is what i texted to a girl:

Me: Hey, I'm going to the mall this Friday (I send it around Tuesday afternoon), join me and shop for some amazing clothes!
Her: Ok, i'm not really sure, but i'll check if i have some time then.

I don't text her till Friday, don't her anything for her back. I don't want to be needy and i want to punish this kind of behaviour. How can i do this?
Author:  Tundra [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:08 pm ]
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If she forgets to contact you then you forget to contact her. Don't dwell on it. Eventually she will come up with an excuse, whether its legit or not.
Author:  AaronAA [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:26 pm ]
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That's a very non-committed response. You have to build your value when you meet her. If you had done that properly, you wouldn't be worrying about this now, because she'd be obviously into you.

That said, don't try to punish girls for not doing what you want. That's both abusive and a waste of your time. If she's not into you, go find a girl who is.
Author:  Wall1e [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:31 pm ]
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@Tundra

The reason why she isn't into me right now, is because she kissed my friend on NYE. She still likes him, but my friend is not into her. So in order to convince her, I have to make the first move, or else I don't have a chance at all.

@AaronAA

well, indeed. Right after i posted this thread, she texted me about doing the same thing, this Saturday ( i haven't texted her since she forgot it). I didn't have time the moment she wanted to go so I proposed a different meeting. This is what i did:

Me: Hey, I have to work on that time. But let's do this: (She told me she had to stay home because of her parents, yeah we both are young, annoying parents) I'll come over to your place and we watch a movie.
Her: Hmm, well if you want to do that, it's gonna be a Romcom.
Me: Np, i can bring over John Tucker must Die if you haven't seen it.
Her: What? Are you ill? I thought every guy hated those movies.
Me: I guess I am a exception to those other guys then. And I gotta say that I believe those movies are funny. This one is amazing, if you haven't seen it?
Her: Ok, well I take a look and let you know.
Me: I've heard that before and you will forget, just like last time. Ill go hang out with some friends instead then.
Her: I will ask tomorrow, or else this Friday.
Me: I will stick to it that you do it. If you forget again, you're gonna have a boring night, and I'll just find some1 else. (to let her know I don't appreciate this kind of behaviour)
Her: Ill ask my mother immediatly when I see her. Then i'm gonna stalk you:twisted:
Me: That's settled then. I'm gonna go study again now. X

If some1 wants to give my advice/feedback on things going well, or not: I'd like to hear them! Every advice would be nice to learn more about 'having game'. Give strong criticism if you feel like to.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:31 pm ]
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She told you she wasn't sure, dude. To punish someone for not giving you the attention you want is just childish. Game other girls if it bothers you that much, or CALL HER on Friday to let her know when you were going to be there. By the way, what were you gonna do if she showed up expecting you to buy her those "amazing clothes?" You're invite was kinda weak.
Author:  Tundra [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 9:41 pm ]
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@Tundra

The reason why she isn't into me right now, is because she kissed my friend on NYE. She still likes him, but my friend is not into her. So in order to convince her, I have to make the first move, or else I don't have a chance at all.
Oh man. Please walk away from that. The only way I see this working is if you AMOG in a positive way. There is no amount of punishing that is going to get her to like you, its just going to look bitter. And honestly, most, if not all girls, can tell when somebody likes them and its going to look real immature. She probably already knows which is why she flaked on you.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 10:59 pm ]
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You can only punish a girl that your with or one that really likes you.. Other wise it'll just turn them off.
Author:  Defy [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 11:10 pm ]
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Quote:
You can only punish a girl that your with or one that really likes you.. Other wise it'll just turn them off.
hehe, very true.
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 11:22 pm ]
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If shes not hooked, threats to you possibly losing interest fall on deaf ears.

This what they call domino effect in pick up. If you did something wrong earlier it will punish you in the future.

Right now best you can do is casually meet with her so you could hook her and then be able to escalate. Attempting to escalate right now is pointless and even devaluing.
Author:  AaronAA [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 10:07 pm ]
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If you haven't already, just walk away. Based on what you've said, I think the best advice for you is to try to cultivate a nonjudgmental attitude. Having a desire to "punish" women for their behavior is going to ruin your interactions with women and prevent you from ever having a real relationship with them.

My advice is that you should try to constantly remind yourself that it's ALWAYS more effective to reward behavior that you like and walk away from behavior you don't like. When you consistently walk away from women that do things you don't like and maintain a nonjudgemental attitude about it, you will communicate that you have standards but that you're also not a dick about it. Other women (her friends, perhaps) will notice this and be more attracted to you.

I'm happy to talk further if any of this doesn't make sense. I know I talk in long, convoluted sentences sometimes.
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