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| Author: | Ficteros [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 5:50 pm ] |
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To keep it short: There is this girl and boy. This girl and boy have been in a relationship for 6 months, recently there relationship has not been going too well. In the last few weeks I have been having sex with this girl, while she was still in a relationship with the boy, she told me she likes me and that when her and this boy started going out, she liked me then. During the times we were having sex, the boy said her and this girl were going on a break, now they are back together I do not know what to do. The girl still has interest in me, she still wants me, but she also wants this other boy. Clearly, she wants to be with this boy more, she has been in a relationship with him for 6 months and her feelings have grown towards him. When I told her our relationship couldn't be the same since it has been, since her and this boy are getting back together, she acted upset and said she wants me. I have some feelings towards the girl, the last few weeks/month we have gotten quite close. I have turned down opportunity's to have sex with other girls, her fully being aware of this to have sex with her. She tells me how jealous she gets, even with this boy, when she see's me with other girls. I just don't know what to do now, should I carry on having sex with her? Should I cut contact with her (too the best of my ability, I see her everyday at school and she is in social group)? Should I turn the relationship down to just friends and nothing more? Should I have sex with her and other girls? The only fear I have with carrying with her, it that I eventually will become more emotionally detached which means when I need to duck and dive out of the relationship it will become more difficult, especially if her feelings toward me changes. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 5:59 pm ] |
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She has a fuckin boyfriend bro?... Leave her alone. Thats common sense, |
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| Author: | Ficteros [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:11 pm ] |
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Understood. Only problem I have is she is now in the same social group as mine, and since she has come in this social group I have had this relationship with her. Kinda shat in my own back yard, so turning it down may be a problem especially if I am alone with her, with other girls, I could just cut everything off, but with this girl, if I do that, other people in the group are going to notice and wonder why, I also don't want to be the person who brings the bad vibes. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 6:56 pm ] |
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Thats your own issues dude.. Theres always a price to pay for doing wrong, Let that be yours. Friend zone her and call it a day... It'd be man of you to tell her boyfriend you've been fucking her behind his back also. He should know |
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| Author: | Ficteros [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:23 pm ] |
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Friend zoning her will be tricky. I have this one thing I hate, I don't know whether it is jealousy but the thought of a girl I have fucked or I have had, having sex with someone else just gets to me. I feel as if that could of been me and I could of played things differently so I could still be running her but with other girls, instead of having cut her off or let her go. |
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| Author: | Hank Moody [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:53 pm ] |
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dude, y are u on here if you dont want honest advice. what fuze said is absolutely right. i dont care if she lives in the same fucking house as you drop her like the bad habit she is, this is gonna end VERY badly for you, and stop whining that u could have had sex with other girls. ps i would also tell the bf, he is gonna be very very pissed if she tells him. which she will cos she sounds like a fucked up girl. who does not give a fuck about you or her bf..... |
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| Author: | Ficteros [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 3:00 am ] |
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They broke up before I told her. Her boyfriend is fucking other girls, I'm still fucking her. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 3:45 am ] |
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...what the fuck? You are fucking a girl with a boyfriend, yet get upset at the idea of a girl fucking other dudes? You do see the hypocrisy in all that, right? And that's a serious issue to sort out before you have any sort of relationship, even a casual one, with a girl. |
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| Author: | Ficteros [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:06 am ] |
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Quote: ...what the fuck?
Of course I do. That is my problem. I have started trying to change my focus, I will see this girl and fuck her, but I try not to put all my attention on her and thinking what she is doing with other boys. Instead I am making contact with other girls, seeing people, friends, generally not taking it too seriously and having fun. I just haven't been in a relationship similar to this and mind fucked myself.
You are fucking a girl with a boyfriend, yet get upset at the idea of a girl fucking other dudes? You do see the hypocrisy in all that, right? And that's a serious issue to sort out before you have any sort of relationship, even a casual one, with a girl. |
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