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Author:  GKS [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 12:59 am ]
Post subject:  I can't figure out what's wrong
So this has happened to me couple times already, I want to fix it but I have no idea where to start.

Typical scenario: I gamed them online, left my number and they usually texted me without couple hours. Then a little fluff talk, teasing, bantering and I invited them to tag along with something I'm going to do. They showed up, I ran some solid game, they can't keep their hands off me and usually the dates ended up with either making out or sex.

I'd text the next day if we had sex, otherwise I waited 1 or 2 days, and texted them an inside joke or something fun. No response, wait couple days, invited them doing something fun, no response.

So my hands are tied, I can't figure out what went wrong to improve. The only thing I can think of is buyer's remorse, that or I might have appeared too easy to win over, I should have hold out on the makeout part?
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 1:23 am ]
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Author:  Chris2k10 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 1:39 am ]
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YO, very great thread. I have this same problem as well man except I also get BLOCKED! I'd say that after you fuck or make out, try to cuddle with them. Make future projections, don't stop at just sex. These girls just consider you as a one night stand and hit the fucking hills after. Actually, I have no fucking idea man.
Author:  GKS [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 1:49 am ]
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Penis enlargement pills?
I don't think this is the case :lol:
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YO, very great thread. I have this same problem as well man except I also get BLOCKED! I'd say that after you fuck or make out, try to cuddle with them. Make future projections, don't stop at just sex. These girls just consider you as a one night stand and hit the fucking hills after. Actually, I have no fucking idea man.
I always make plan for the next day on the first date, when we part ways, they always told me to call them. It's not that they completely lose interest or anything, but it almost seems like they have buyer's remorse and try to play hard to get to redeem themselves.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 2:01 am ]
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They tell me the SAME thing man! "I will call you." "I will text you." Nigga get the hell out of here lol.

They don't have buyer's remorse, that's for sure. But they are trying to redeem themselves. Why? Because their ASD jumps back up again. She can't feel normal without having her anti-slut defense back up even though she loved getting fucked by you. You're taking the secret lover position for her. In my opinion which I'll probably start doing, is to go at it with a huge dose of affection AFTER sex. You see, it's good at the beginning because we go at it just for the sex in order to get them.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 2:12 am ]
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I actually have a great experience with this one. I was having this problem a lot. It was frustrating, I just couldn't get that third meet-up, even though I got make outs on the day 2s.

So with one girl, who was less attractive and I didn't have much interest in, I didn't text her at all after we hooked up. I just let it be. Pretty soon she was calling me, asking when she could see me again. I thought it may be because she wasn't very hot and she saw me as a catch.

Tried it again, but I had sex with this girl on the day 2, and she was hotter. I would normally have texted her within 3 or 4 days of the date. She didn't text me first, but I waited a full 2 weeks before texting her, inviting her out to dinner. It went great and we had sex again, she even said something like "I thought you may not have liked me"

I've rationlized it to this: People want what they can't have, and they want things worth having. On the meet-up, you're showing her what it would be like to be your girlfriend. Fun, thrills, comfort and good sex. By texting her immediately after, you're almost saying "I'd like you to be my girlfriend" and that's too easy. She thinks "yeah, he's alright, but I know all these other guys, I don't want to get tied to this one right now."

By being distant, you add an element of mystery, imply that you're busy and have options, and also show her that she needs to work to maintain that "boyfriend-girlfriend" sort of relationship, it won't just come to her automatically.

Try it out, I hope it works for you.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 2:49 am ]
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I don't know about you guys, but girls actually LIKE me lol.. I have the issue with getting away from them. I think you guys are lucky.
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 5:37 am ]
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And as Slip n Slide said, I haven't even gotten close to 2 full weeks of not texting after the hook-up. Now I see brah, now I see.
Author:  GKS [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:53 am ]
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And as Slip n Slide said, I haven't even gotten close to 2 full weeks of not texting after the hook-up. Now I see brah, now I see.
Yea I think I'm gonna try that too. :lol: But now that I have more time on hands, I'm gonna focus more in real life game.
Author:  Hank Moody [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:15 pm ]
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I don't know about you guys, but girls actually LIKE me lol.. I have the issue with getting away from them. I think you guys are lucky.

lol
Author:  papichulo818 [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:22 pm ]
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YO, very great thread. I have this same problem as well man except I also get BLOCKED! I'd say that after you fuck or make out, try to cuddle with them. Make future projections, don't stop at just sex. These girls just consider you as a one night stand and hit the fucking hills after. Actually, I have no fucking idea man.
Ya, start talking about the drapes you wanna hang in your future home together etc.. talk about being old and sitting in rocking chairs facing one another with her knitting some fucking socks, as you sit there starring blankly (beginning of dementia) at the ceiling as though there's something interesting going on whilst smoking your cork pipe.
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