it both activated her anti-slut defense (women are averse to that heinous label) AND made you seem "defensive," like you were backpedaling when she confronted you about it. "Ok" is a bad response because it responds with TOO MUCH indifference. While you somewhat retain state control, she is still likely to break off contact with you because she doesn't feel comfortable.

your english is fine, just stop saying "hehe"


Neither "ok" nor what your friend said was a proper response; and your friend has 0 game. His response was wrong because it both activated her anti-slut defense (women are averse to that heinous label) AND made you seem "defensive," like you were backpedaling when she confronted you about it. "Ok" is a bad response because it responds with TOO MUCH indifference. While you somewhat retain state control, she is still likely to break off contact with you because she doesn't feel comfortable.

In general, avoid telling people about your love life. Not out of morality, it's just the practical thing to do. Think about it this way, you stand to gain NOTHING, there is only the possibility that you might lose out on Poon in case it gets back to her. The ego assuaging feedback you get from bragging is never worth poon gone missing. And women talk, you don't want a reputation like that.

But in case you ARE ever caught in a situation like that again, I've found that acting completely oblivious works wonders. I know it sounds stupid but just go:

Her: "thanks for telling you friends?"
You: "Huh?"
Her: "you told your friends we hooked up?"
You: "I only have 2 1/2 friends, and why would I tell them?"
Her: "then how do people know...?"
You: "How do people know what...?

and so forth. Just act COMPLETELY oblivious about the whole debacle. And then end it with "wanna come over and talk about it?"

DO NOT try and justify it, apologize, or act too uncaring. If you wanna PTP (preserve the poon), Evade, evade, evade.