Is calling everyone honey/baby showing that u are comfortable, used to girl? or does it show neediness?

can someone give some opinion about this??

It really depends I think. I call girls babe fairly early on but it can be a touchy thing. Sort of like kino escalation. I personally would wait till you've slept with her. That way you're making a clear statement to her that because you've slept together you appreciate her more. But say it with a shit eating grin and a little moxie. You don't wanna be the nice guy calling her babe. You wanna be the bad boy saying "listen love, you know I'm here for ya babe." See you can get away with that after sex but not before. Say that before sex and you're just an easily available tool.

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I approach with "hey hun" all the time but I normally call my Ben's babe, goob, dork, or I'll neg. them with dear in a sarcastic tone if they are fuckin up.

I live in the Southern U.S. and I call almost every woman either darlin', honey/hun, dear or doll. I learned that from an older player. It's always well recieved and sets a frame early on. Not many fellas under 50 do this anymore, so it makes me stand out. Not sure if it would work in other regions though.

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thanks for all the reply, i think i will keep calling girls as 'guys' for the time being.

and award them with 'honey/babe' if they show interest

Honey/babe seems more appropriate after a few dates.

I call every single girl baby, wether I've known you for 8 years or I don't know you at all.. Its just the way I talk

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